Dating your shrink - Page 3 - Love Forum

2c2bt · #31 (**permalink**) 15-10-03, 10:37 AM

I already knew that.
That's why when I was telling her how I feel, she didn't really say anything. She was probably thinking "get away."
How am I supposed to feel good when the girl that I talk to and like could care less if I exist?

jane · #32 (**permalink**) 15-10-03, 10:57 AM

she is not jsut A GIRL... she is you therapist! That's why you pay them!!!

leight69 · #33 (**permalink**) 15-10-03, 11:03 AM

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She was probably thinking "get away."

well you have no idea what she was thinking, you can only speculate. and again.....SHE'S YOUR THEREPIST. TOUGH! DEAL WITH IT!

Now if you're still reading, ask yourself this, you don't like the cards you've been dealt, how can you deal with that? What have you done to improve your life since the discovery? What have you done to worsen your life since then?

What can you do to improve your life?

jane · #34 (**permalink**) 15-10-03, 11:04 AM

right on leight69!

2c2bt · #35 (**permalink**) 16-10-03, 09:25 AM

Thanks.
Just get over it and move on. Sounds so simple.

Here I am so head over heels for this girl that I drive 30 min at 8 in the morning just to see her .

And I am in such a bad position because
A) She doesn't even like me.
B) Even if she were to like me, she would get in real trouble if she did anything beyond therapy.

It's an utter dead end.
And lucky me.
I get to be the one left all broken up in the end.
Her loss right?
But for some reason, I still feel sad.

leight69 · #36 (**permalink**) 16-10-03, 10:01 AM

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Just get over it and move on. Sounds so simple.

hey nobody said it was gonna be easy...just that's what needs to be done.

but wallowing in self-pity will get you nowhere.

#37 (**permalink**) 16-10-03, 12:23 PM

No, that usually leads to self destruction. You don't need that man.

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islandgirl · #38 (**permalink**) 16-10-03, 06:03 PM

You need to find another therapist to help you deal with this and stop seeing this girl. Pick a really ugly therapist so that you can just concentrate on the issues.

jane · #39 (**permalink**) 21-10-03, 08:30 AM

wait a minute...
Let me get this straight..
You need a therapist to get of another therapist? Doesn't this sound strange to anyone else? Look man, I understand what your saying however, SHE IS A THERAPIST! NOT A POTENTIAL GIRLFRIEND! Good luck!

2c2bt · #40 (**permalink**) 09-11-03, 09:22 AM

Therapy ended yesterday. I will never see her again. I am so utterly depressed. She told me she can't have a relationship with me, and she will be with her boyfriend. It's so painful. I don't know what to do anymore.