Two types of Girls, which one do you prefer? - Love Forum

nickia · #1 (**permalink**) 12-08-05, 04:29 PM

Recently I have come to a conclusion there are two types that guys would find attractive:

THe first type of girls are those who attract guys mainly by sexually. This type of girls are usually refered as "HOT" girls. Guys mainly got attracted by their faces, boobs, and other sexual features. The first thing when guys saw them is "oh I wish I could bang them". I don't really prefer this type of girls.

The second type of girls are girls that attract guys non-sexually. Speaking of non-sexually, sure guys still want to have sex with them, but the main reason that guys like them is not because they want to bang them like Type 1 girls. This type of girls generally have a good personality. They are nice, friendly, and sweet voice. Or sometimes they may be a pretty/cute face. Guys do not focus attention on their boobs, legs, ass, rather they focus on their eyes. The TYPE 2 girls can just kill you with a very sweet smile and laugh. Being with this kind of girls makes you happy all day long and sometimes you even forgot about sex. Personnaly I like this type of girl.

TYPE 1 of girls are easy to find because all they have to do is to look nice and hot. But sometimes they may lack of good personality.

TYPE 2 of girls are really rare because it's really hard to find someone you like and at the same time they have a very good personality.

Any thoughts?

Airborne · #2 (**permalink**) 12-08-05, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by nickia

The second type of girls are girls that attract guys non-sexually. Speaking of non-sexually, sure guys still want to have sex with them, but the main reason that guys like them is not because they want to bang them like Type 1 girls. This type of girls generally have a good personality. They are nice, friendly, and sweet voice. Or sometimes they may be a pretty/cute face. Guys do not focus attention on their boobs, legs, ass, rather they focus on their eyes. The TYPE 2 girls can just kill you with a very sweet smile and laugh. Being with this kind of girls makes you happy all day long and sometimes you even forgot about sex. Personnaly I like this type of girl.
Any thoughts?

My ex was like that, when she broke up with me it was heart breaking, and far more traumatising than when ever a type 1 girl has broken up with me.

I agree with you in that type 2 girls tend to be the type you will love the most, and want to be with the most.

In my opinion sexuality it an emotional and physical thing, and as a result type 2 girls tend to be the type who attract guys sexually, once they get to know them, though initially guys may not give type 2 girls a 2nd glance.

#3 (**permalink**) 12-08-05, 10:35 PM

That one.

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COAD · #4 (**permalink**) 12-08-05, 11:25 PM

I always go for Type 2... No matter what.

There are other, more important things to life besides sex you know.

Don99 · #5 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 04:26 AM

Its always good to have a balance, luckily my g/f right now is type 1 & 2, I was like "ooo who is the cute little redhead" and she is also probably the nicest person I know.

COAD · #6 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 05:13 AM

Its nice to have balanced, Im very happy for you Don

The thing is, number 1 girls are already spoiled by guys....
What I mean is that they already got so much attention that they wont care much for you, and thats not the bad part - they could be sluts too.

XPixiedustX · #7 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 05:48 AM

aww i love this thread...this is exactly what type 2 girls tell themselves...when they don't get guys....it's a comforting thought but the type 1 girls still get all the attention...especially in liek high school and college....

coffeecrazy · #8 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 06:54 AM

Type 2 girls all the way. The girl I like at the moment is 110% type 2.

nickia · #9 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 08:35 AM

Well, a girl that is balanced with looks and personality is a good thing. Iin fact it's fantastic, just imagine a cute pretty girl with the kindest heart in the world!

But realistically, a gem like that is hard to find, thus we need to compromise. In that case a good girl comes into mind if you are serisouly want a relationship and family.

Late_vamp · #10 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 08:57 AM

DAMN , i guess i lost my gem ... but seriously , im done putting my standards to high ( rejected lots of girls ...i know .. how dumb was i ) and ill actually try to go out with an average girl ( in terms of looks , ) see, like that ill be able to tell if i really like her and not if its only because of her ass . + when theyr average they tend to be more attached to their Bf because they know most guys dont pay that much attention to them so they dont want to be left alone ( who wants to anyway?)

Girl no ; 2

nickia · #11 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Late_vamp

DAMN , i guess i lost my gem ... but seriously , im done putting my standards to high ( rejected lots of girls ...i know .. how dumb was i ) and ill actually try to go out with an average girl ( in terms of looks , ) see, like that ill be able to tell if i really like her and not if its only because of her ass . + when theyr average they tend to be more attached to their Bf because they know most guys dont pay that much attention to them so they dont want to be left alone ( who wants to anyway?)

Girl no ; 2

Hey I have never been into a relationship before so I want to ask if having a high standard is a bad thing?

Does high standard meaning only going out with the person you like?
I cannot imagine how do you go out with someone you are not interested initially?

Maybe that's why I have never had a girlfriend

Late_vamp · #12 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 09:38 AM

yea its kind of like that ... well its that and not ONLY going out with the girls that look like some superstar/pornstar/ model . So try not to go * ooh this girl doesnt have a big ass its just regular and i find her breast are little bit too small , just a little ...nahh i wont go for her* with that type of attitude you WILL miss a good 50% of girls that could you could like if you got to know them , also i dont know if its only me but when i was a virgin i was way more picky , now a days i always have at least a small interest for about 90% of girls i see ...even if i find their faces not to be perfect , or they dont have the perfect body with all the features . theres more to a girl then just skin deep . but its still a crutial factor.

Ellynn · #13 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by nickia

Hey I have never been into a relationship before so I want to ask if having a high standard is a bad thing?

Does high standard meaning only going out with the person you like?
I cannot imagine how do you go out with someone you are not interested initially?

Maybe that's why I have never had a girlfriend

It's not bad to have high standards. Its bad to have unrealistic standards....
I mean obivously your not gonna date someone who you have no attraction to whatsoever.

My friend is a girl and hasn't dated in 3 yrs. Shes 21 and really petite but very opinionated. She doesn't just settle. She has high standards and theres nothing wrong with that. Yes its hard to find what she is looking for....but shes not desperate. She gets hit on often but mostly by guys who have kids.....no job....etc. She has her own house and she worked very hard for it. She has almost gotten to the point of not giving a guy a chance at all because he has to be "perfect" in her eyes. I mean its good shes not settling with just anyone. But shes getting to the point where doesn't give guys a chance at all. Shes unrealistic when it comes to relationships. If he doesn't call her right away she gives up on him assuming he doesn't like her.. If he won't ask her out(which she thinks men should be the one asking) and yet flirts with her...she thinks hes not interested. I mean there is a fine line between having high standards and being unrealistic.

If you do find someone who you are attracted to or like....then go for it. But you can't expect them to be all perfect. They might not be a swimsuit model....but they may be attractive to you. They might not be exactly how you want them to be but thats only human.
I guess its what you view as attractive. Everyones idea of attractive is different. Everyones view of standards being high/low is different also.

Just don't be unrealistic when it comes to relationships.

bluesummer · #14 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 10:05 AM

I think the same rating system applies to guys too. I for one have not bothered with 'Type 1' Guys since high school....they're nice to look at (and they KNOW it), but they usually have girls all over them, and seem to be more into getting laid by as many chicks as possible because they know they CAN. Ew. Not for me. Give me type 2 anyday.

RSK · #15 (**permalink**) 13-08-05, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by bluesummer

I think the same rating system applies to guys too. I for one have not bothered with 'Type 1' Guys since high school....they're nice to look at (and they KNOW it), but they usually have girls all over them, and seem to be more into getting laid by as many chicks as possible because they know they CAN. Ew. Not for me. Give me type 2 anyday.

AHHHHH

Please don't misunderstand some of the Type 1 guys!

I would consider myself a Type 1 guy (sorry for any arrogance, but it is kind of true *RSK Blushes*).

But I am very shy, never have girls around me (I would love to though)

As far as the OP, I'd like a combination of the two. Type 1 looks and Type 2 charm - they're out there!