getting over her! trying

[new guy]

hey guys I never thought I would catch myself typing on a random web forum about this but I guess not being with the person you love the most kinda makes you do strange things...

I am 21 had a girlfriend for 3 and a half years... we broke up cuz she found out that I lied to her about my school situation, a minor detail but to her it was huge..

we were on and off after that but finally a month ago things ended. I know shes not the right person for me but it still hurts you know. its not like i can't get other girls after the brake up bunch of girls have been approching me but its not the same at all.

I tried to get away from her but I catch myself running up to her when I see her out and calling her lat at night

if you have any tips how to get over a girl let me know... oh yeah and dating other girls doens't help even the ones that are hotter then her


I guess i needed someone to listen'

thanks whoever read this

[leight69]

i suggest go have a read through the Dumping Talk section. there is loads of good info in there and it helped me out sooo much.

if used properly time does heals. if not used properly pain can lingure for a very long time.

[Illusional]

time. only time will heal you because you're going to have to change your feelings about her or wait till they fade away. however dweeling over the past won't help at all, you'll want to have to get over her and you will. raverboy

[new guy]

thanks guys