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Old 14-09-03, 08:09 AM
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I am totally and completely in love with this girl at my school, she's new to it and I tried to comfort her and basically be a friend. As this went on my friendship with her blossemed into a love for her. I think it's love, I'm almost certain it is. But I am somewhat of a jokester, and she does not fully believe me yet. She says she wants to but doesn't know. I was at my friends hockey practice one night and i wrote her a poem. I gave it to her and she said it was the nicest thing anybody has ever done for her.

Just one tiny little problem. I might be the worst boyfriend of all time, I know this, and accept it. I am trying to change, but my last three girlfriends have been disasters. I just become unconsiderate and possibly uncaring, but I have never been in love before. Also, I have not remained friends with any of my past girlfriends and i have not so much as glanced at her since we broke up. But this girl is the greatest person I have ever met, even though our differences are very large. She likes punk rock, I prefer rap and r&b, she smokes (not only cigarettes) and I am not a fan of such behaviour. She wants rather unusual piercings (she tried to get her nipple pierced yesterday) She is very weird, unpredictable, but so am I, perhaps that is what we have in common, our spontaniousnous unites us. But I really don't want to lose her, I can definitely see us beings best friends. So here is my game plan:

I do not go out with her, for now atleast, until I become a better boyfriend/kisser, heh. But anyway would any of you suggest this is a good idea or a bad one. I am just soooo in love with Danielle. (Yeah I said it, what?)
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Old 15-09-03, 10:46 AM
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Be very careful. You might end up as an intellectual whore.

Read www.intellectualwhores.com and see the light!

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Old 15-09-03, 04:23 PM
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i think you think you're a bad bf because when you no longer care to be with a girl, you're looking for any excuse to get out of the relationship and that also means treating them bad if it comes to it. right now you're in bliss over this new girl because she's a new attraction. however i suggest that you wait before you jump into a relationship because it will probably end up like the rest. if you really like this girl and want to try at a relationship reguardless of the differences, i suggest getting to know her better and see if it's really her personality that you like, and not just her looks. raverboy
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Old 17-09-03, 03:41 AM
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It wasn't her looks i fell in love with, though they certainly are a plus. Its her personality, and I've decided to be her friend for now, but one problem has occured, the other night she opened up to me. She told me that she wanted to kill herself and that she had tried to the previous night, but she couldn't do it when she thought of me. I tried to calm her down and made her promise not to do any irreversible actions for awhile. What do you suggest I do now?
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