Friendship questions...

[No Bodies Hero]

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Originally Posted by Tone

See to me that is such crap, and I've heard similair excuses from girls before too.

The past is the past - you can't change it. If she's unhappy she shouldn't be with him, period. ESPECIALLY if she has someone like you who she's fond of and knows would treat her better... I honestly don't think she realizes what she could potentially be missing out on.

I mean - what's worse - ending a relationship and, in turn, "wasting" the last 3 years (I don't think any of life's failures are a waste at all - we need things like that to learn from and gain experience from) together or wasting the next 3 years of your life with someone who doesn't make you happy?

I know, it is one of those things I won't really understand about her. Because we have so much fun with each other. I help her out with anything I can and she helps me out with what ever she can. I have also told her that she can not go back into those three years with him and reuse them but she could always trade them in for something better. But I don't know if she understood what I meant by that But she will soon either figure it out or just miss out because I will be there for her, but if I find someone else I will not be like I used to be.

Well dude I hope your situations pans out better than mine did, and it's good that you are keeping your eyes and mind open to any other opportunities.

Best of luck, keep us posted.

[No Bodies Hero]

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Originally Posted by Tone

Well dude I hope your situations pans out better than mine did, and it's good that you are keeping your eyes and mind open to any other opportunities.

Best of luck, keep us posted.

Will do, we start our bowling league saturday haha.

[No Bodies Hero]

We had this conversation last night.

Her (12:13:24 AM): you are the best
Her (12:13:31 AM): talk to ya tomorrow
NO BODIES H3R0 (12:13:35 AM): you know I would do anything for you
Her (12:13:45 AM): i know and that is why i like ya
Her (12:14:02 AM): and i am your bestest best friend in the whole eide world
NO BODIES H3R0 (12:14:07 AM): yes you are
NO BODIES H3R0 (12:14:11 AM): and you do mean alot to me
Her (12:14:12 AM): see i told ya
Her (12:14:15 AM): i know
Her (12:14:18 AM): as do yo u
NO BODIES H3R0 (12:14:24 AM): even though I can not really show you
NO BODIES H3R0 (12:14:33 AM): but you know it
NO BODIES H3R0 (12:14:35 AM): I hope so
Her (12:14:57 AM): i do
Her (12:15:06 AM): well night night

and today while she was at work she got a promotion and a raise. I was the only person she called and told. She didn't tell her boyfriend until she left work.

I am so confused. It seems like it is going my way. But yet it doesn't.

-Joshua`

[No Bodies Hero]

bump it up for the late night crew.

Your update isn't really anything new... anything I felt I would reply to that with, is what I've already said in this thread.

I still think she's kind of stringing you along, giving you just enough hope so that if anything happens with her b/f, she has you. If things turn great and they get married, well, don't be suprised when she stops calling.

Again I'd go with:

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Originally Posted by Tone

Tell her that you do have feelings for her and don't think you guys should see each other anymore because you can't handle being just friends... and say that to hear of how unhappy she is and how bad her b/f treats her is getting to be unbearable because you would give anything just to have the opportunity he takes for granted every single day.

[No Bodies Hero]

I have been thinking about doing that soon. the 19th we are going on a little trip just the two of us. Lets see how that turns out.

[Ellynn]

She likes the attention from you. Simple as that. Doesn't mean she wants to be with you........or would dump her man to be with you.....she likes that you want her so much.
LIke when you told her how she means alot to you her response was "I KNOW". Or when you said you would do anything for her.....her response was "I know and thats why I like ya so much.....im your your bestest FRIEND in the world." She likes that she has you wrapped around her finger and lusting after her and longing......and she knows she could get you to do anything for her....but she would never be with you. Its the attention she likes. She likes that she is your best friend....so she knows you would drop everything in a heartbeat to do something FOR her.

The more you are around her.....the more your gonna drive yourself nuts about her....and the more she will USE you for your attention towards her. I mean we all like to feel special....but this girl is going overboard.... Instead of messing with your feelings....she should be doing all that stuff thats shes doing with her bf. And yeah she might not be happy......but shes not breaking up. Shes staying with him simpley because she doesnt have the guts to end things after 3 yrs. That alone is pathetic(sorry but it is).

So say she does break up with this guy...... She will probably come to you for advice on how to date another guy....KNOWING that you like her.

If I were you .......I would distance myself from her. I mean if you really want keep her as a friend....but find other people to associate with....and other girls who ARE AVAILABLE to hang out with.

Otherwise this girl is just gonna keep stringing you along. I can guarantee it.