Getting college girls...Help - Love Forum

Eskate85 · #1 (**permalink**) 30-08-05, 07:56 AM

Hello, I have been at college for one week now. I know that sounds early, and it is. But i just got over a relationship with a girl i really loved. Here's the deal. I'm a regular partier, college parties rock. But i never really look to 'score' at the parties, i'm usually just there to get crazy and meet people. I want to meet a nice girl, but its hard when girls i could possibly like are in other classes and whatnot. I was just wondering what other peoples past experiences were at college and meeting women/starting a relationship. This is mainly for the guys to answer, but any advice the women would have is greatly appreciated.

Goo10Tag · #2 (**permalink**) 30-08-05, 08:22 AM

I'm also in my first week college. I went to a community college for two years but no one really talked to eachother---they just go do their thing and go home. Of course you could make friends but it was just different I guess.

When you live on campus it seems like a whole different ballgame. All kinds of ways to meet people. I've only been here a week so there's no big time parties. I'm also lucky to have a school with a 57% female population. As far as advice goes I'd say make your rounds socially. I've not had any big time success yet....but you're bound to find someone who's interestedi n you.

Only-virgins · #3 (**permalink**) 30-08-05, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Goo10Tag

they just go do their thing and go home.

Smart people.

Late_vamp · #4 (**permalink**) 30-08-05, 09:18 AM

Get some girl in your class that you find good looking , talk to her as a friend , ask if you can study with her , after a little while she'll introduce you to all her friends , be invited at party's and most probably even get her because you got to know her because of all the time you studied together . If not , most girls in college are always a bit crazy in party's , so theres a good chance to just hook up in a party .

Aaron Blanc · #5 (**permalink**) 30-08-05, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Eskate85

I want to meet a nice girl, but its hard when girls i could possibly like are in other classes and whatnot.

I can tell you, that meeting nice girls, does not happen at parties. I didn't meet my wife at a party or any other social gathering, we simply met in class, then again, in a club meeting for school again. Now that i'm done with school and everything else, and seeing how life has pretty much taken off, I don't see anyone that I would get married to now. If I would have never met my wife during school, I might have ended up miserable, or even single my whole life.

You are in the same college or university, two things are for shur. One, you are both close or near each other, so a relationship is very realistic, and you both ended up there for one reason or an other, so either you share the same interests, or the same qualities as her.

Let's face it, after you're finished with schooling, and after you've established yourself, you plan to go out there looking to find your soulmate. And even if you do, can you honestly expect them to not be taken? I'm not talking about meeting women to get married to, but eventually, it's inevitable to meet someone in college that you won't share a strong bond with. Until that time comes, you are playing the field of the campus. You can meet some casual encounters, and even be lucky enough as to find someone whom which a serious relationship is very likely to come about from.

The point is, start getting more involved in things you would normally get involved in. If you're serious about your studies, form a study group. For each class, there should be some change in the study group. This way you can meet more people. Get involved in clubs, or other activities your university offers. Just remember, if it's something you don't enjoy, don't force yourself to do it, just so you can meet people. If you don't like south american poetry, don't join the club. If you like to party, go ahead and party. In that party, i'm shur you will find many girls who are there, who also want to party. Parties are complicated for singles. They are fun, but when you are single, it becomes a place where you look for other people to "hook up" with. Keep this in mind, since many girls you may meet there, might only be there because they are looking for someone themselves, and not really there to enjoy the party.

NeoSeminole · #6 (**permalink**) 30-08-05, 10:01 AM

Eskate, it depends on what type of girls you are looking for. If you only want to get laid, treat girls like shit. I know you're thinking I must be crazy. Trust me, if you're nice to girls they only want to be your friend. I learned my lesson the hard way. If they ask you to do a favor for them, tell them you're not their *****. Make fun of their clothes. If they're wearing abercrombie jeans, ask them if they bought them from a homeless person. The rule of thumb is the hotter the girl, the more you have to treat them like dirt.

If you are looking for a meaningful relationship, just be yourself. Get involved in campus activites like sports and clubs. They have a club for just about everything in college. Coffee shops are also a good place to meet girls. Don't ask me why, but they just are. I would stay away from girls in your classes. If shit goes bad, she will tell all her friends in class about you. You will also have to deal with seeing her for the rest of the semmester. One last note, always treat girls with respect. This only applies if you are looking for a meaningful relationship. You never know if the girl you were rude to might be friends with the girl you like.

Only-virgins · #7 (**permalink**) 30-08-05, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by NeoSeminole

Eskate, it depends on what type of girls you are looking for. If you only want to get laid, treat girls like shit. I know you're thinking I must be crazy. Trust me, if you're nice to girls they only want to be your friend. I learned my lesson the hard way. If they ask you to do a favor for them, tell them you're not their *****. Make fun of their clothes. If they're wearing abercrombie jeans, ask them if they bought them from a homeless person. The rule of thumb is the hotter the girl, the more you have to treat them like dirt.

I believe you and everything because I hear people say this everywere. Its just that its seriously hard to swallow this with out me experiencing it first hand. If its true though...God damn girls are stupid as all hell! and it only supports my theory of females = retarded.

seingold · #8 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 03:25 AM

If all you feel like is getting laid, keep going to parties and it's bound to happen. Think about it, over 100 parties a year, drunk girls at every one of them, it's inevitable.

If you want decent girls for a relationship, it'll happen when you least expect it, either through classes or clubs or sports. Maybe even in the library. Just be patient, you probably won't get a girlfriend at a party.