she is a great girl, but why am i not into it? - Page 2 - Love Forum

Ellynn · #16 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 12:15 AM

haha.....OH OK......now I get it! Geez I'm a little slow this morning....

Tone · #17 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 12:50 AM

Hey, someone had to do it ^_^

klip · #18 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 02:38 AM

yeah i supose that must be the reason, my ex, although mentally NOT anywhere near the kind of girl i should be with, is really cute and sadly since she was the first girl i was ever so close with i have like a permanent "fix" on her, i asked a friend of mine about this issue and he added that if my ex was my first love it may be harder to just forget her than

any normal ex, which i suppose is true...is there any way to put her out of my mind any easier? other than not speaking with her, which im trying my very best to do and so far i havent messed it up.

p.s thanks for the advice so far

cheazypeaz · #19 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 03:07 AM

hi, i feel exactly the same, been with my girlfriend for 6 months, infact it sounds like a post i could have made, i get on well with her, her family etc, but there is something missing. I'd love to know what it is.. its like a spark is missing. i love her to pieces, dont get me wrong. but something is 'missing'

spike

klip · #20 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 05:07 AM

aye man yeah we both have the same dillema, it sucks

cheazypeaz · #21 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 05:14 AM

indeedy!...

klip · #22 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 06:02 AM

oh and by the way, ellynn....Serge is THE man and ChronoCross blew my mind away Many many times

lilwing89 · #23 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 07:28 AM

i like the chrono game for super nintendo its one of my favorites

klip · #24 (**permalink**) 31-08-05, 09:40 AM

yeah chrono trigger was great, i enjoyed cross more for some reason, although most find it the other way around

Ellynn · #25 (**permalink**) 01-09-05, 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by klip

oh and by the way, ellynn....Serge is THE man and ChronoCross blew my mind away Many many times

Serge? You mean my icon? Um......didn't realize it was a guy until now....lmao.... But I say your thank you thread to me......and yeah even though we aren't supposed to post personal comments on the forum....Thanx anyways!!

(Next time just PM me

) But I kinda figured you were new to the forum so it happens...now you know....

tranceport · #26 (**permalink**) 02-09-05, 01:46 AM

Well chemistry is such an important thing, although it may (will) fade over time you have to have that initial click (opinion). Sometimes just loving the person and being attached with her familly isn't enough. The reality is if you are feeling this way about her after 6 months its time to think about where this is going. I think siometimes we continue on with relationships because we are afraid of breaking up and being alone. Communication though is the most important thing, if you feel like this for a couple weeks then you need to tell her. The result certainly could be a break-up but what is worse racking your brain why it isn't right. But make sure before you talk about it b/c she will over react and if you don't want to break up she might do it anyways. Hey man I don't envey your situation, but also remember every relationship has its ups and downs so take things in stride if this feeling just came on. Good luck

## These are my thoughts and experiences only obviously you have to use some judgement here.

TAVS · #27 (**permalink**) 02-09-05, 01:55 AM

Been there, done that. You're totally not 100% over your ex in some fashion. Don't leave this great catch you've found! I broke up with my new gal over a situation like this and went running back to her. That was followed by the best four years of my life, which is now being followed by crap crap and more crap.