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lilwing89 · #1 (**permalink**) 06-09-05, 07:24 AM

lately my gf has just been the moodiest girl, ooooooooooh boy, ill tell ya...
fight every time we talk...its a bad case of pms...so technically i cant really tell if it is "that time of the month" or she just picked me to be her target of hate, or she just dont like me anymore...

but wow shes said some pretty psycho shit like "you always blame me for everything!" and "your always wanna fight with me!"
#1 i always blame myself for everything
#2 if i wanted to fight with her...wait, i dont want to fight with her!!! god damnit! i want everything to be calm like it was like a week ago.

ok thanks for letting me vent guys i feel better now..
but just incase she fights again, how can i tell if she has pms???? so i dont take everything she says so offensive..

lilwing89 · #2 (**permalink**) 06-09-05, 07:25 AM

might i add its just been this weekend

shh! · #3 (**permalink**) 06-09-05, 08:06 AM

PMS = Putting up with Men Syndrome

Unless you plan to have a sex change operation, plan to live with it.
:-D

gHEXjt · #4 (**permalink**) 06-09-05, 08:09 AM

Her being on her period or anticipating it and experiencing PMS in no excuse for treating you like an *******. If there's an excuse women use too much, its blaming their stupid actions on PMS. I could have the runs, a terrible hangover, and be puking all day, and I still wouldn't take it out on my girl. Yet if she was being a ***** the week before her period for no reason, she'd start fights with me, and only me, and then later when I'd try to make her feel shitty about it, she'd just blame her actions on PMS. What a bunch of bullshit. This is just some of the bullshit we've got to deal with, and they've obviously got theirs from us as well. But sometimes I really do think, as my ex-gf's dad used to say to me when my gf and her mom were both acting bitchy, "sometimes I just wish I was gay so I wouldn't have to deal with women shit so much." But what can I say, I love broads.

Just wait and see what happens, and hopefully she'll stop being a *****.

lilwing89 · #5 (**permalink**) 06-09-05, 08:10 AM

well i dont even know if it IS pms yet so i need someone who knows the symptoms and shit to give me a diagnosis.
dig?

gHEXjt · #6 (**permalink**) 06-09-05, 08:13 AM

Every woman is different. You can't really say whether or not its PMS. Maybe she's just being a *****.

lilwing89 · #7 (**permalink**) 06-09-05, 08:15 AM

haha well the other thing that is ludacris is SHES never been in a relationship her whole life and i have and she is telling ME that i dont know anything about relationships out of the middle of the argument..she didnt even have anything to back that statement up.

lilwing89 · #8 (**permalink**) 06-09-05, 08:17 AM

and yea imo she is being a *****-and being good at it...ill let yall know if it gets better.

Lloyd95 · #9 (**permalink**) 06-09-05, 11:46 PM

Ah the young.....

Welcome to the World of Women. I'm 35 and have yet to figure them out, nor do I know anyone who has. As you get older, you'll just put up with it. there are good times, mind you, yet some of the time you will be shaking your head in utter disbelief/awe.

It's not really PMS, it's just a more bitchy/crazy time of the month.

shh! · #10 (**permalink**) 07-09-05, 12:06 AM

I consider PMS to be the time of the month when I see the world with clarity. The rest of the month is when I am being generous with my thoughts and give people the benefit of the doubt.

Frasbee · #11 (**permalink**) 07-09-05, 12:09 AM

PMS is bullshiiiiiit.

She's bein' a b-itch.

See you in the dumping forum!

nimPy · #12 (**permalink**) 07-09-05, 12:27 AM

i'm in the same similar situation... my gf is in a lot of stress lately... so she doesn't want to open up to me... or call/pick up my calls..... only talked a little bit each day on IM but nothing personal.... i feel like she just want to space out.... and i really love her... i always want to know whats going through her life... but when i ask her what is wrong she says "nothing"... obviously when a girl says "nothing"... there is something... ahhhhhh please help

lilwing89 · #13 (**permalink**) 07-09-05, 05:02 AM

ya know...then when they say "nothing" you try to get it out of them while at the same time battling a furious *****...most of the time i get whatever is bothering her out of her and she feels better when she talks to me...but also the excuse my gf uses is "i dont know" and she does know....she overuses that phrase..

lilwing89 · #14 (**permalink**) 07-09-05, 11:18 AM

ok i sent her a rose(she said thanks on the net for the rose and said it was pretty when she got back from vball) and she seems to be happier today..we didnt talk as much and i got a little bit of the silent treatment :sad:

i hope we start talking again like we have before!

justonekiss · #15 (**permalink**) 07-09-05, 12:29 PM

I always have horrible mood swings when on my period. Lately they've gotten SO much worse, and I really do take most of them out on my boy. It's not that I mean to, it's just that I get in this weird mindset where I snap at everyone, and when people get emotional who do they turn to? Their significant others. So, of course, it's expected for him to care, and let me be a ***** to him. And when he won't take it{why should he?!}, I snap even more. We have our fights, and then drop it, because we both know I didn't mean it. Of course I have to make it up to him later, as I should, but it's understood to not take it personally.

If the fights are really emotional, from her point of view, but not emotional at all to you, then that's a sign of PMS. Also if she just snaps out of nowhere and won't explain why, or is trying to make you feel bad intentionally.