A Little Shy With Girls

[Mike]

Take it this way, you're practically guaranteeing nothing will happen if you don't talk to her, especially if she's shy!

There's no end of threads (including my own (very old)) in here where the only answer is to talk to the subject of their problem. Don't worry about whether she likes you unless you have the courage to talk to her.

I understand 'how' to talk to her is your question. Ask her, for example, "have you seen Dukes of Hazzard?", then continue that, no matter how stupid you feel.

Good luck.

[Rico_Suave]

Thanks everybody. But does anyone have any other advice on what I should talk to her about?

[mini696]

I dont know what you could talk to her about, but I would suggest loosing weight. This might help with your self esteem.

Mick

[Ellynn]

Talk about the class you are in together. Maybe get her to be a study partner...then go from there.

[mini696]

Be positive and talk about things that interest you. Dont be afraid of doing all the talking, and talking about yourself.

Try to guide the conversation onto topics other than school if you can.

Mick

[moeburn]

I think the most important thing someone could have told me back in junior high is that almost everyone is just as shy as you are.

By the way, about the weight thing, once you get to high school its a good thing to be a little overweight. Guys argue over who weighs more.

[boobaa]

I always think that I am not good-looking either, I have some skin akne problem and i am a bit skinny introvert also. But, the fact is, several girls try to flirt me... And that confuses me alot. I sort of a gave up my true love due to my shyness and now there are those other girls and I still think about... Oh well. Go say it before its too late. Maybe, when she is alone or something, ask what time is it or something, and then give a sign or something.