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Old 08-09-05, 04:08 AM
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Here we go again ...
Greetings ... I have a question, I'll keep it as short as possible .. I have been out on a date with this girl 4 times now... Actually these dates are really long, the first 10 hours, the second 5 hours the third was just a few hours, and the fourth was 8 hours ... All in the evening... We actually kissed on the first date ... Anyways, here's my question ...

I am not sure what to think at this point, Everytime we go out we usually kiss, which I totally like, and have no problems with. Could this be a normal thing for her... I have heard from male and female friends that kissing has more of a feeling then sex ...

I am a little confused now, I don't know what to do, I don't want to blow it with this girl, she is really starting to grow on me ... If you know what I mean .... Any suggestions would be appriciated!

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Old 08-09-05, 04:10 AM
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I'm sorry, I don't really understand the nature of your problem. Are you bothered that she kisses you?
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Old 08-09-05, 04:11 AM
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As long as your enjoying it and she has no problem with it....I wouldn't question it. Go with it. I mean kissing is a good thing....and yes it usually is a sign shes into you. I certainly would not kiss a guy who I wasn't into.

Now if she were rushing you into the sack then I would think twice about her. Just enjoy it and try not to worry so much!
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Old 08-09-05, 04:12 AM
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I'm sorry, I don't really understand the nature of your problem. Are you bothered that she kisses you?
I think hes bothered with the fact they kissed on the first date and thats all they have been doing since then.... Or it could be the fact that hes afraid she kisses lot of guys without any meaning behind it.
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Old 08-09-05, 04:18 AM
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Yeah dude what's the problem here? Things are going good, you're dating someone who likes kissing you... but you ask for suggestions?! Okay I SUGGEST you keep doin what you're doin! ;p

Wait a minute... you're just tryin to rub in that you're kissin a pretty girl and guys like me aren't, AREN'T YOU!!!!!!

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Old 08-09-05, 04:20 AM
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As long as your enjoying it and she has no problem with it....I wouldn't question it. Go with it. I mean kissing is a good thing....and yes it usually is a sign shes into you. I certainly would not kiss a guy who I wasn't into.

Now if she were rushing you into the sack then I would think twice about her. Just enjoy it and try not to worry so much!
But he said he totally likes it and has no problems with it.... Maybe Tone is right, and Anthony is having a "haha" moment...
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Sorry for the confusion here ... There were 2 problems here .. #1: Do you think that these kisses mean anything to her? .. #2 (not previously disclosed) She indicated that she is going through "divorce" ... and, until it is final, or the process is started she feels bad to do anything, and everytime she kisses me she feels like she is cheating on her ex ... What a mess ... I really like this girl, I know it is sudden, but I feel something strong for her ...

.. Thx again guys for all of your help ...
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Well.....1. I think the kisses do mean something to her..but shes feeling guilty about the circumstances....still being married and all.
2. Well....my friend is in the process of a divorce as well but is with another guy. Her ex even hangs out with all of us together....its really weird.... But they still are friends...

Anyways....if she feels guilty....then maybe put things on hold until things are final with her divorce.
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Now if she were rushing you into the sack then I would think twice about her.
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha. Um hes a guy. If you think twice about her because she wants sex...umm...send her over my way please.
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. I have heard from male and female friends that kissing has more of a feeling then sex ...
All things being relative, I think she'll really be "feeling" you and into you once she let's you do anal to her.
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A sigh is just a sigh...

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You must remember this
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A sigh is just a sigh...

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What movie is that?
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