Help Me Please! - Love Forum

nobody · #1 (**permalink**) 09-09-05, 06:41 AM

Sorry, if this is long and sorry if I putted in the wrong forum.

Back when I was still a junior at my high school I was in a class called chemistry. And there was a girl who sat next to me, but I never noticed her, untill the middle of the 1st semester, where I started to like her. She was the type of girl who I sought in a girl, but sadly I never talked to her in chemistry, because I was still a shy guy back than. After 1st semester me and her got a new class together called resource, like study hall. As the year went by, I never got the chance to talk to her, but I did see some sign that she might liked me, but I don't know about these stuff.

1st - One day she was walking toward me she putted her hand on her head and looked down, like she was shy of me. Also when she was talking to her friend she looked shy or happy when I was looking at her talking to her friend. She would look at me and back at her friend a lot.

2nd - Also whenever we bump into each other in the school she would always stare into my eyes and I will always stare back at her, but me and her never made a expression to each other.

3rd - Another one is when I was at the counter where people bought foods and drinks, she came up to buy a pop and started standing close to me, where my friends and I was. Me and my friends were probably 4 feet from the counter, untill it was my turn to go buy, but she asked me if I was going to go and I told her that she could go ahead. After she bought the pop the counter guy asked if it was the right pop, and she reply back with a smile on her face, and her voice got louder as she replyed to the counter guy. As she started to walk away, while I bought my junk food and went back down to sit, where her table was beside me and my friends, she looked happy while talking to her friends with a louder voice back when she asked me I was gonna go buy my junk food.

4th(Last One) - And my last one that I think she might like me is whenever school was over, I would go into the side door of the school, where all the transfer bus people would stand by. I would stand by the bathroom, and there she was standing in front of me, and when I was standing inside the side door there she was inside the side door, where she would be on the other side of me. Never standing inside when I was out of the side door or when I was inside the side door.

Does that mean she like me or not?Please tell me.

After Junior year I pretty much got over my shyness, and built in more confident toward myself. Still I'm still shy around some people, and now is my last year of my high school. And I am hoping to talk to her this year, but I don't see her that much in the hallway. The only time I see her is after school when she's with her friends, but I am shy to go talk to her while her friends are around her. How should I go up and talk to her? I really want this year to be my best out of all my year in school. So please give me some advice.

shh! · #2 (**permalink**) 09-09-05, 07:37 AM

It doesn't sound like she's avoiding you, sweetie, and that is a good sign. Call her aside from her friends if you can't get her by herself otherwise, and ask her how her summer was. If she is responding warmly, ask her if she wants to go do something sometime, maybe coffee or whatever it is you kids do these days. I know it is scary, but you'll never know unless you ask. Be brave! Good luck, and keep us posted.

Ekips · #3 (**permalink**) 09-09-05, 07:56 AM

Mmm, all I have to say, if it's not gonna be secret, do it infront of her friends. Might be scary, but don't think, if they tease you or her, it's a good thing. ;-)
She probably likes you, don't wait for her to like someone else. If she dosen't, then hey, you guys can always be good friends.

Maleber · #4 (**permalink**) 09-09-05, 09:50 AM

Chances are that she likes you, and it really looks like that, she's acting really shy around you, and half the time that means she'll like you.

Ellynn · #5 (**permalink**) 09-09-05, 02:00 PM

Ahh....I remember my high school days.... I had a journal with stuff that this one guy did that made me think he liked me(sounds like stuff you said)..... And I found out after high school that he did.(I wrote him an email when he went to college and found out).....but i blew my chance by never getting up the nerve to talk to him while we were in school together..... He was just as shy as me....so well....he went away to school and it was too late. He lived in another state and still does to this day....

Take the chance. I really regretted NOT taking the chance....when there was a possibility. Do it now before you end up graduating and moving on with your lives....

The worst she can say is not....shes not interested in you. Then you move on. At least you only have one yr left....and its probably a big school right? So it won't be bad... At least then you know.

nobody · #6 (**permalink**) 13-09-05, 07:52 AM

Thanks for the comment on my little story thing. And by the way I'm going to try to talk to her if I see her, and also see if she is interested in me. So, thanks a lot who reply in here.

gHEXjt · #7 (**permalink**) 13-09-05, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by nobody

Thanks for the comment on my little story thing. And by the way I'm going to try to talk to her if I see her, and also see if she is interested in me. So, thanks a lot who reply in here.

Good for you, but don't just straight up ask her if she's interested in you. Make casual talk and just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime if she seems interested.