hmm..odd situation, think she is interested? - Love Forum

klip · #1 (**permalink**) 10-09-05, 10:55 AM

Something odd happened today, whatever the outcome im ok with it, but just curious to what you guys think...here is the story.

Today im in college at my first period class, and just last week i had missed a class so i was planning on asking anyone about what i had missed, so i walk in ( abouyt 10 mins before class starts ) and theres like 6 people inside, so i go and sit at my usuall desk and i notice the girl next to me, she sems like an older woman, i would say 22-23, im 19...well anyway

i ask her if she was here last class and if i had missed anything, she had a big smile on her face most of the time during the conversation, and would chuckle ( u know, those girl giggles that they do ) she said yeah we took some notes but nothing big, so i say thanks and go back to my business. Class begins but i ( at the corner of my eyes ) sorta notice that she stares over at me a handfull of times, but i think nothing of it.

Anyway, a bit later i feel a tap on my shoulder, and its her, handing me a peice of paper, i ask what it is and she happily says that its the notes from last class, that i may copy them...so i thank her and do just that. i give her my thanks and hand her back the paper, we talk a bit and joke around, some more of them smiles and giggles came my way...

well this is the last part, about 10 mins later after this i feel another tap and she is this time handing me a much smaller peice of paper, b4 i realize what it is i hear her say "here take it, just incase your absent again, im pretty responsible" or something to that extent, and the paper has her name and number on it....i instantly give her mine back adding that she may ask me for help as well.

ok class ends about 30 mins later and we walk out, we talk all the way to her next class the we say our goodbyes and il see her next class....

ok..well thats it, i dunno i mean, she seemed pretty out there and straight forward, of course she COULD just be a really nice girl and did mean 100% that she just wanted to help me in the future...but hey i had to ask some opinions.

either way im not really looking for a g/f right now that seriously, altho u never know, so it doesnt matter, and plus she seems like an awesome friend even if she isnt trying to send me hints...SO what do YOU guys think?

(thx for holding out for my story lol )

bluesummer · #2 (**permalink**) 10-09-05, 11:00 AM

I don't know, I always try to be helpful and make friends with people in my classes. I usually get a few names/phone numbers in the first few days as contacts for studying or catch up notes (on those absentee days). Pretty standard stuff.

I'd just take it as she's being friendly and helpful. If it's more than that, i guess you'll find out as the semester goes on, right.

klip · #3 (**permalink**) 10-09-05, 11:03 AM

very true, il just see how it goes...i dunno i guess i always just thought that we guys where the first ones that have to make the "move", if you will, when it comes to requesting numbers, even for study groups and such...but hey we shall see, il post more next time something happens.

klip · #4 (**permalink**) 10-09-05, 12:17 PM

Well im heading to sleep, but if anyone else can comment on this il check the board first thing in the morning, so feel free to add...i supose there isnt much left to ponder about thought, i guess its just the eye contact she gave and the way she did everything that sort of felt flirt-ish, also her haste to give me her # added to my beliefs...but we shall see....g'night

Ellynn · #5 (**permalink**) 10-09-05, 02:02 PM

Yeah she probably is being helpful....... But...its good you both exchanged numbers etc. Then you can go from there. If things are to happen...they will happen as time goes on. Good luck!

bball_1523 · #6 (**permalink**) 10-09-05, 02:40 PM

I think she likes you more than just giving you school help. I wish that happened to me

Airborne · #7 (**permalink**) 10-09-05, 04:09 PM

Not really to sure, she may want to get to know you better, although not in the form of a relationship.

Mishanya · #8 (**permalink**) 10-09-05, 05:10 PM

Damn it. I see whats happening here!!! You're just trying to parade your groovy experience in front of all of us

OFCURSE she is interested. Let me tell you for a fact noone in their right mind would give their number out to a stranger just because they felt like being a little bit helpful. There is clearly some interest there that has to be explored. I guess your next move (If you would like to take this further ofcourse) is to ask her out for a coffee and try to develop some sort of relationship outside of the colledge. Take it one step at a time (Dont rush into anything) and see where this guess...

You lucky lucky person

bball_1523 · #9 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Mishanya

Damn it. I see whats happening here!!! You're just trying to parade your groovy experience in front of all of us

OFCURSE she is interested. Let me tell you for a fact noone in their right mind would give their number out to a stranger just because they felt like being a little bit helpful. There is clearly some interest there that has to be explored. I guess your next move (If you would like to take this further ofcourse) is to ask her out for a coffee and try to develop some sort of relationship outside of the colledge. Take it one step at a time (Dont rush into anything) and see where this guess...

You lucky lucky person

I agree with this guy. I don't know anybody that would just give their number away just like that and in your situation, just to help.

shh! · #10 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by bball_1523

I agree with this guy. I don't know anybody that would just give their number away just like that and in your situation, just to help.

I have. Of course, I've been sorry about it later. No good deed goes unpunished.

bball_1523 · #11 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 01:33 AM

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Originally Posted by shh!

I have. Of course, I've been sorry about it later. No good deed goes unpunished.

lol, well I've never seen a girl do it in the college classroom. At least not to me

klip · #12 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 01:40 AM

lol im sorry, i didnt mean for it to come out as like a boast/brag, i really didnt mean that, i just wanted some other's opinions, and thanks for the opinions everyone...il find out more on info. on monday when i see her most likely

klip · #13 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 03:42 AM

Well guys, new info. already! i decided to call her on the # she gave me just 10 mins ago to ask her a question about our schoolwork * i really just watned to say whats up but hey *

So i call her and she was at superwhees ( rollerskating place ) cuz of someones b-day party or something, its really loud so she walks outside and then we talk for a bit, then i ask her about a book report that we have due and ask if she has picked a book yet, she said she was gonna do it on the book they gave us in class since they gave it to us for free, no need to go out and buy another one..she recommend i do the same, as it saves some money.

i told her that was a good idea and said il prob. do it on the same book then, then she said "well maybe we should go read it together? like go to barnes and nobles or someplace " and i was all for it i told her yeah that sounds like a great idea, so we talked for a bit more after that and told her i would see her monday....and well thats that lol

damn i didnt even get the chance to ask her out for coffee, she already did it for me basically! so what do u guys think? she could just still be acting friendly....lol a bit to friendly if she isnt interested tho! but hey like i said either way im fine with it, but still...what do u guys think of this?

Ellynn · #14 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 03:46 AM

Barnes and Noble has a Starbucks in there. SO you can get coffee and actually get to talk...

Its also cool because if she is really trying to get to know you as more then just a study partner/friend.........its a pretty slick way

klip · #15 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 03:49 AM

lol well il offer her coffee but i peronally hate it! well yeah thats true, il just hang out with her at B&N, get some reading done, and then after il ask her to a movie sometime if she wants, to get away from all the study study.