Saving a friendship? Help! - Love Forum

Airborne · #1 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 10:33 AM

I know this is supposed to be a relationship only forum but I need some serious help here.

There is this girl I use to go out with who I am friends with, and last night I did something which ended up with me finding out that her and a friend of mine were in a secret relationship. She really didn't like this as I think they wanted to the relationship to remain a secret. I think she is paticularly annoyed at me at the moment and may stop our friendship as a result.

What I did was paticularly jerkish, but I never knew she would take it so seriously, or that the ramifications would be so severe. I have already tryed apologising.

Any tips on how to save our friendship would be much appreciated!

Lloyd95 · #2 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 10:37 AM

I don't know what you did

Airborne · #3 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 11:16 AM

Well it is this quiz thing that finds out who your biggest crush is, who your first crush is, who your bf is that sort of thing, and then it sends the details to my email. She filled it in, clicked yes, and the details went to my email.

I did it as a joke, but it went wrong in that I found out about a secret relationship she was having with a friend of mine, so I have sort of ruined that secret.

Basically I need to know how to make it better, and how to repair our friendship.

updraft · #4 (**permalink**) 11-09-05, 10:33 PM

If she aint willing you got to sweep this one to the trash. Sorry to be blunt, but if she doesnt show any signs of reconciling your friendship, then move on.

Airborne · #5 (**permalink**) 12-09-05, 09:11 AM

lol we sorted it out and are friends again

updraft · #6 (**permalink**) 12-09-05, 11:07 AM

Glad to hear it.

Mishanya · #7 (**permalink**) 12-09-05, 01:20 PM

With friends like this who needs enemies

(Ofcourse, you could always black mail her to keep the friendship going - Evil Grin...)