could someone help? - Love Forum

atomicdefection · #1 (**permalink**) 13-09-05, 02:35 PM

I could use some help.. (sorry if this is in the wrong forum)

Ok here goes.. Well I know this girl and we have talked for like a year now and I have really came to liking her, well I need some advice to tell if she likes me or not or ideas on what I should do.. Right now we live like 2 hours away. Well she knows I really like her and really care for her. But I’m not sure if she feels the same about me. She has said “I melt with you” but the big thing is I have been in a lot of bad relationships and I’m more worried about being hurt again and lead on again. So that is why I came here hoping maybe some of you could give me some advice on it.

Airborne · #2 (**permalink**) 13-09-05, 02:49 PM

Well for starters it may be a good idea to start talking and being friendly with her after a year of not talking with her. Try exchanging a few emails and phone calls, and see if she has MSN or something along those lines. That would be a good way to bridge the 2 hour distance between you.

atomicdefection · #3 (**permalink**) 13-09-05, 02:54 PM

No what I ment was "we have been talking for about a year now"

We usually talk daily. But lately with me working and getting ready to go back to college and her working we haven't had all that much time to talk. I do everything I can for this girl and really care for her. I just want to make sure everything is right

may9988 · #4 (**permalink**) 13-09-05, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by atomicdefection

I have been in a lot of bad relationships and I’m more worried about being hurt again and lead on again.

If you refuse to be vulnerable, chances are this is not going to work out at all. Everyone 20 and above have been in some kind of bad relationship. I hated this excuse with an intense passion, too overused.

atomicdefection · #5 (**permalink**) 13-09-05, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by may9988

If you refuse to be vulnerable, chances are this is not going to work out at all. Everyone 20 and above have been in some kind of bad relationship. I hated this excuse with an intense passion, too overused.

i know what you mean, like i'm willing to risk the chance but i just want to figure out if she does truly like me. i just haven't had that great of luck some of my past relatiionships

Ellynn · #6 (**permalink**) 13-09-05, 04:45 PM

Living 2 hrs away from each other is brutal.... I think the distance thing is the main thing standing between the two of you. But honestly.....life is full of disappointments....and you have to take a risk to be able to have enjoyment. SO if you like her...go for it. Just know that there are no guarantees.......just have fun while it lasts....and who knows....it could last a long long time? You never know until you find out.

#7 (**permalink**) 14-09-05, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by atomicdefection

She has said “I melt with you” but the big thing is I have been in a lot of bad relationships and I’m more worried about being hurt again and lead on again.

So what are you gonna do? Just never love again? Never give anyone else a chance because of what other people have done to you in the past? You have to let the past go and you have to move on or you could miss out on some REAL shit.

She's not any of the girls that did you wrong in the past, so love like you've never been hurt.

Lloyd95 · #8 (**permalink**) 14-09-05, 12:54 AM

OT: what is this "MSN" that everyone talks about to chat with? Can i get it? Is it a computer or phone?

TAVS · #9 (**permalink**) 14-09-05, 12:56 AM

Its just another instant messanger like AOL IM, ICQ, or whatnot. A computer program

Lloyd95 · #10 (**permalink**) 14-09-05, 01:00 AM

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Originally Posted by TAVS

Its just another instant messanger like AOL IM, ICQ, or whatnot. A computer program

Oh; thanks.

sweetkiss4one · #11 (**permalink**) 21-09-05, 10:54 AM

Yes!! Long distance relationships are hard, but you have to be willing to put the work into it! (My man and I were two hours away.... and we made it work)!!! Here is one thing to remember.... you CAN NOT hold another person responsible for something others have done to you in the past. If you decide to do just that... you will probably end up losing this girl and even end up missing out on something really great! Then you will be kicking yourself in the head and wishing you would of never done it!!!!