Indeed you do. But you could do it better. OV did NOT respond positively to your comments.
No what I mean by moderate is fumigate (sp?) the forum from spam and advertising. However, I believe reguardless ones positivity/negativity and ones duty on this forum, one should be able to express how one feels. As you can see I'm not the nicest person on the boards, hell I'm not a nice person at all, but like many people know on this forum who have been here long enoughto know, know not to take me seriously.
<sigh> This is bad psychology. "Tough Love" only works when the person you're using it on actually cares about you. OV doesn't give a sh!t what you think. Unless you are real-life buddies, your "cruel to be kind" tec-neek won't work. Anyway, I'm not really wanting to argue w/you so don't get defensive, I think its great you're a mod, just wanting to pt out you've been a little harsh recently to no real point that I can see. You know the saying "If one person says it..."
There are good books out there on communication that might give you some alternative methods (you'd probably find them useful in your interactions w/your son also).
You learn something new everyday. Also by the way, I haven't really got a son

. If you look in my profile it states my age.
Also... for the advice, I'm kinda contemplating whether to take up your advice, because as you correctly stated... my communcation with people do suck. Thanks
I don't think Keichi is a bad mod...He has not kicked me yet so.....Im good
Haha because I don't possess such a power. However, I haven't got anything against you, as you become more familiar with the forum you kinda loosened up compared to when you first joined. End of the day, I'm just trying to help you.