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Old 30-10-05, 01:17 PM
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One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd ." I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends' tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on. As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes. My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives." He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"


There was a big smile on his face.


It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude. I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends. He said yes.

We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him. Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!" He just laughed and handed me half the books. Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends. When we were seniors, we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I was going to Duke.


I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem. He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship. Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak. Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.



Boy, sometimes I was jealous.


Today was one of those days. I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!" He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. "Thanks," he said. As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began;


"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends... I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story."

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home. He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

"Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable." I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.

I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize its depth. Never underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can change a person's life.

For Better or for worse.


God puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some way. Look for God in others.

"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
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Old 30-10-05, 09:21 PM
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thats an amazing story, its so awesome how someones kindness can save a life
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Old 31-10-05, 01:50 AM
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Yeah, great story, if it's real.
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Interesting story. Toying with suicide however is a psychological complex. Sometimes a mental illness. I would encourage your friend to seek some counseling. If i was his friend, i would be concerned for his mental health and well being...

Let me take some time to out to note your physical location... Sydney has been dubbed top 7th best city for living Standards in the world!!!

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That's a story. I can't remember where I read it. On Snopes, probably.
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aw wow thats a great story quite sad thinkin bout what would of happened if you wasnt so kind !! xx
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This poster is a GIRL. She didn't write this story, she is just telling it. A little too Hallmark for me, though.
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I read this somewhere (well the ending anyways), I just can't remember where... Hmmm...

Great story though
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i like this story are you guys still freinds?
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So good story!!
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Wow that's a great story, it made me go really it's awesome!! It's crazy what little gestures, friendship can do
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nice, good message, but a little to preachy... the message is great, but the delivery of it could've been better. i found it too sudden. i thought the climax was when the speech was about the time he was helped... which would've been a great ending, but the second climax of the suicide just threw the tone a little off. really good though, to the point that i don't feel like writing a story anymore, i've lost confidence after reading this one, we'll see what happens
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