*hops back onto the topic*

If you changed 'Top 21 Ways To help A Woman Fall In Love With You'
to 'Top 21 Ways To help A Man Fall In Love With You'
and changed all the 'her's to 'him's you would still be right!
(I.e. Us guys would like that stuff too plz )

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Well poo on you, spoiling our fun! hrmph!

You know, it's easy to do all those things for someone. The trick is finding that someone who will relish it. I have to say, I've done all or most of those, but sadly, I'm still looking for someone who will truly appreciate it.

Alex and his hamster sitting on a tree... I shan't continue for Lucid's sake

Anyway, I agree with you Breezy. Can do most of those things but if the girl (or guy) doesn't appreciate it, it's all in vain. Sigh...

And I think that one should always keep a few secrets to him/herself. Not good to tell your whole life story to anyone in my opinion...

I don't mind hijacking my thread at all

If my threads spark conversation then I am happy, and I am easy to please

I dont think I could be with anyone who is like that

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TOO TRUE SQUIRT!!!!!!!!!

Don't settle Lucid. Or you either GB. Don't EVER settle. You both deserve better than that.

What do you mean don't settle? As in don't settle for less or just don't get married (settle down)

lol.......nah, get married if that's what you want. I mean don't settle for less than you want or deserve.

Well, a lot of people tell me that

Some of my ex-classmates used to think I was gay or something actually cos I rejected this girl when I was in grade 8 even though she was really sweet and quite good-looking actually, and she was almost throwing herself all over me.

haha, I suddenly got a feeling of deja vu reading that.
Perhaps we are more alike than we know Raul

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Well... we're both from Commonwealth countries, that's a start

Yeah, thats seams to be what all mine and GBs friends are telling us, and we are not getting anywhere

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A good start? Sounds like a place to stop and wake up.

First off: Are you ****ing joking me, boy?

Everything on your list is a load of ****ing bullshit. Seriously, if you don't know what you're talking about, don't give others advice. I really can't believe no one else picked up on this nonsense.

That post made me want to puke. It reeks of desperation, inconfidence, and lack of dignity.

Grow balls.

And read "Be a Man!"

Its on the bottom of this page:
http://www.loveforum.net/journal.php...65&action=view

Very first article, scroll down. I'll come back to this drivel later.

Im not dating because Im thinking about the girls interests.
'Nice guys' tend to put the girls feelings 1st, even if it hurts- and yes, to anybody elce, that may be seen as their downfall, the nice guy does not always belive this though.
They might even see that it is their striength, being able to take the pain.
And they dont take they give, and are then given something in return.
Not everybody gives to recive though, some give for the sake of giving.

People dont have black & white personaletys, life is different shades of grey. Your not one or the other, your somewhere in between. A ballance between these is important. Everyone is an indervidual.

But you have raised one point that I do agree with, a passion for life.
But life is whatever you want it to be- Love, sex a career, thats up to you. And what you choose is who you are!

You say that a man is not afraid to be himself.
It is true that some may pretend, but most people are who they are, accept that.
Most of us are not afraid to be who we are, which is why your post will have no affect on us, heck it may have even enforced our sence of self.
And we will stand up and fight for who we are, nice guys and jearks alike! Not try to change others, accept that.

So I guess by your definition, you called most of us men.

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