It isn't right, I know. Is there a way out without sacrificing our friendship?

Wow, quite the predicament. if she's married let her go. Sorry man, if you say or do anything chances are she will tell her husband and that can only make things worse.

oh man.. I am so there... its not that I am inlove with him.. ( obviously he is married) .. but we have a connection that I cant seem to break. IT sucks .. I know how you feel and I think the thing is we are still friends even after .. well.. after the ineveitable I guess, its just different now. And we dont talk about what happened at all. Its almost like.. it never happened.. :sad: .. honestly, it hurts. I have no idea what the future holds for us or why it happened in the first place, but I am glad that I have him in my life. He is a wonderful man. I know, i know.. How can he be wonderful if he cheated on his wife? Well, thats a good question but he has always been good to me. I know that in the future, I know better and what happened was wrong.. but I love the memory anyway. I dont know if that helps but I just want you to know that I understand.

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- - Eleanor Roosevelt
" It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
- - Michael Nolan
"...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... yours truly
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I am letting her go today. She is happy and wants it to be that way with her husband. This is the only way to end it. My heart goes out to her. I will treasure the memories...