Is there something in the air?? - Love Forum

Rosebud · #1 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 08:20 AM

Ok so ahh, lately I have been getting a lot of attention from the male gender. All of a sudden it seems as though guys are just coming out of the woodworks. I know I have been in a good mood despite all the chaos in my life, but I didn't expect this. I always thought the summer time was the time for all that stuff due to having less clothes on and the hot weather but good lord! I mean I don't mind, obviously it's a compliment but it's not like just one person at one place, it's all over. I haven't had this much attention in awhile! Or maybe I didn't notice it. I mean I haven't even put on make-up in awhile or even tried to make myself look good so to speak.

So my question is.. What makes a person approachable? Or what do you look for before deciding if your going to go up and talk with someone?

Asip4u · #2 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 08:33 AM

Guys are just being guys and you're an attractive girl Rosebud. Most guys do have certain things that they look for when approaching. For example, if a girl is smiling a lot, playing with her, flirting (even a little)..stuff like that. There are also those who are very desperate and approach every girl that comes their way. IMO, i don't think i can talk to a girl if she rarely smiles.

RSK · #3 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Rosebud

Ok so ahh, lately I have been getting a lot of attention from the male gender. All of a sudden it seems as though guys are just coming out of the woodworks. I know I have been in a good mood despite all the chaos in my life, but I didn't expect this. I always thought the summer time was the time for all that stuff due to having less clothes on and the hot weather but good lord! I mean I don't mind, obviously it's a compliment but it's not like just one person at one place, it's all over. I haven't had this much attention in awhile! Or maybe I didn't notice it. I mean I haven't even put on make-up in awhile or even tried to make myself look good so to speak.

So my question is.. What makes a person approachable? Or what do you look for before deciding if your going to go up and talk with someone?

you are hot

Debunkt · #4 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 08:52 AM

pheromones!

whaywardj · #5 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 08:53 AM

Why? Winter approaches. The boys are looking for something to keep their chestnuts warm. It's a fact. Most people in the world were born 9 months after the winter season of their locale of birth.

What? First, how they move. Then, their hands and how they use them. Then, their eyes and how they use them. After those, everything else is pretty much irrelevant, subject only to my fancy of the moment.

Rosebud · #6 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:02 AM

I always thought that it was summer time that brought everyone on prowl. I mean it makes sense, hot weather less clothes. I didn't think winter was the time for attraction!! hmm, I learn something new every day!

TAVS · #7 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:04 AM

Well it just depends. I personally think spring is the best time to be going after girls for just that reason....man I miss college. However, the body heat analogy is a great way to invite yourself to stay the night. rofl

bluesummer · #8 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:14 AM

For me, approachable is all about the body language, sort of like what whayward was saying. I tend to gravitate towards men with a sense of ease about them, with genuine smiles.

As for finding guys more attracted to you all of a sudden Rosebud...I've always found that it really has to do with your attitude, and how you're feeling about yourself. All the things you think and feel manifest themselves physically.....and will tell people whether you are 'approachable' or not. Let's call it a 'good vibe'. I've found I can go out in less than flattering clothes, no makeup and messy hair, and still get plenty of attention on days when I'm kind of feeling great about the world. Then I'll have nights where I'm dressed to the nines and depressed and...nothing.

Rosebud · #9 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by bluesummer

For me, approachable is all about the body language, sort of like what whayward was saying. I tend to gravitate towards men with a sense of ease about them, with genuine smiles.

As for finding guys more attracted to you all of a sudden Rosebud...I've always found that it really has to do with your attitude, and how you're feeling about yourself. All the things you think and feel manifest themselves physically.....and will tell people whether you are 'approachable' or not. Let's call it a 'good vibe'. I've found I can go out in less than flattering clothes, no makeup and messy hair, and still get plenty of attention on days when I'm kind of feeling great about the world. Then I'll have nights where I'm dressed to the nines and depressed and...nothing.

yeah that's kinda what I was thinking too but it's just so weird because I haven't had anything like this in a long time. But it does bring my confidence back a little more.

bluesummer · #10 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:27 AM

Hey, I'm not opposed to a little ego boost now and then.

Rosebud · #11 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:29 AM

LOL, I hear ya. It comes in handy when your down about things!!!!

whaywardj · #12 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:31 AM

You mean like sagging boobies?

Rosebud · #13 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:32 AM

LOL.. ughm no.. although that would bring me down!!!

bluesummer · #14 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:34 AM

Sagging boobs? I better not see those for at least another 20 years, or I'm gonna need a helluva lot more than the occasional ego boost....

Rosebud · #15 (**permalink**) 22-10-05, 09:37 AM

LOL, I'm with ya on that one blue. Out of 6 girlfriends I have, I'm the only one with a natural physique (meaning they had surgery). And I plan to keep it that way..