well, oral is not the only currency- hopefully she does other things for him to even the score so to speak. And Vashti has a point- when some guy posts about getting oral, all the guys say "score!" and will discuss the qualities of receiving oral in detail, but nobody will say "you better give her oral back", (edit: ) and when a girl posts asking about how to give oral, all the guys will be all to eager to help, but nobody says "I hope you're getting oral back"- but when a guy posts about giving oral, everyone's apparently outraged.
And yes, I think sexual favours should be balanced. But different things will suit different couples.

For a while, I gave my bf oral but I wouldn't let him give it to me. I didn't want to be in the spotlight and I got more emotional pleasure and connection from giving it to him. To his credit, he didn't put up with it for long

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i wouldn't put up with that long either; i like muff diving.

I think this is a self-consciousness issue on my part, but still have trouble believing that my bf actually enjoys it. Personally, sure I enjoy giving pleasure, I enjoy his reactions, I enjoy the connection, etc.. but I do I enjoy my jaw hurting? hell no! And does he enjoy getting a crick in his neck? of course not.

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tiay, i think you guys are doing something wrong. i never get a crick in my neck when i give oral. and i have gone as long as an hour and 30 minutes (when she couldnt take it anymore, and begged to have sex).

my ex did get a sore jaw though. but it could be because my penis is slightly larger than normal... or that she never stopped sucking to lick my balls or anything. i enjoy a combination of handjob and blowjob and ball licking the most, rather than just a blowjob.

and if your bf didnt like it, he wouldnt let you near it. and he obviously does

k good, that is sortof a relief. it is not much larger than average. just almost 2 and a quarter diameter and 8.5 inches long.

actually he's never actually said that he got a crick in his neck... I just kind of assume that it can't possibly be pleasurable for him beyond the emotional level. Ie, i don't feel like I'm worth it. and I know that self-confidence is sexy and such, but that doesn't change the fact that I don't seen to have any, at least regarding specific things.

As for the sore jaw... I've worn braces/retainers for about 8 years, which has simply decreased the angle to which I can open my jaw. It would really help if I had something to bite down on.. other than his penis of course. I remember there being a sex toy for that, but it was made of candy which is just a stupid idea because then i'd coat him with sticky sugary gunk. ick.

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i always see people talking like this as a joke. i never really understood where it came from. cough it up zarathu

most girls feel that they're worth it. you should ask him if he really likes tasting your vagina. i like doing it.

well atleast you have a nice rack... of teeth and the candy stuff, that would be really sexy. if you covered his penis with sugary stuff, then gave him head, he would really like that. and you would probably lick it all off anyways.

zarathu... dont tell me you piled scoops of icecream around your winky to get a girl to lick it...

i wouldnt know. me and my ex did it the old fashion way... you know... churning butter... that old gig.

Why would anyone here care how big your penis is? This isn't a retorical question, I'm actually wondering why you bothered to type that out

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People are bastard coated bastards with bastard filling

I dunno.. I'd interpret that as kind of an insult. Like "I need to use flavour so that I don't taste your disgusting self"

What's even sillier is that a similar product is available for guys to give oral to girls.. which is beyond moronic, because yeast feeds on sugar, so sugar + vagina = instant yeast infection! which is not sexy at all. So in general the idea of sugar and private parts just turns me off..

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i really dont care if anyone cares or not. i felt like typing it. versteh?

tiay, that is a good point. it would depend on the situation, as to whehter it would be offensive or not. i dont need to put sugar or anything on a vagina, because i like the taste!.... unless they have been running all day and havent showered or anything. that is when it has a nasty taste.

could you say it a little louder? please? oh looks like someone has a little winky. or atleast that is what i gathered, since you seem to be offended by my manliness.

**** you.

I bet Z is measuring himself right now.

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