Originally Posted by
GrkScorp 
Absolutely not.. never say never.. and when it comes to generalizations.. I don't doubt that there are women out there who are more than exceptional or fit comfortably outside a generalization..
It's not a challenge.. but think of it like an invitation.. give it a try.. it's actually really fun & artful for as long as you don't get sexually explicit or nasty.. think of it like writing very creative short stories, custom made for someone to take them on a unique journey.. a journey they can enjoy fully in the comfort & privacy of their own mind.. with their own imagination and interpretation of the metaphors & innuendos.. for a more powerful experience.. try and tailor it around some specific desire (sexual/romantic) a person has..
To be fair though, to all the ladies here.. I have to warn you.. women have it a little harder.. not because of any real limitation.. but only because it's not how women are used to teasing.. so it might be something new.. but it's something very beautiful and artistic.. and when you and your partner get in the habit of teasing eachother like this back and forth.. it makes for more sensual foreplay & enjoyable sex.. (especially if you play out some of these journeys)..
That's because women tend to get labelled with 'chick lit' accusations when they try to take a man on a mental journey. Rather derogatory term. I've yet to meet a man who appreciates innuendo of this sort, and I've personally closed off somewhat in that respect, i.e. using subtle innuendo. More sexually laden implications are also more direct and don't stand as much of a chance of being labelled in this way. It's universal speak, if you will.
In my experience, neither men nor women allow themselves this type of imaginative stimulus - it's considered too lovey-dovey.
Yet, people rarely get to let go and "lose control" these days. What better way to do it than in bed (or outside of it)? Fruit and being tied up, anticipitating it, is a major turn-on.
*appreciates the ride*
I'm the real party-pooper here. Carry on, please.
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