The story of me and Kayla.

[David12]

This may sound a bit weird to alot of you, also, I may seem like a pedofile after this because this is about a 16 year old girl and Im 21, but bare with me. I never attended to go out with this girl at all or do anything sexual, I was kinda trying to be friends with her since she was my brothers friend.

Problem is, I have never met this girl.

So awhile back on myspace, I was looking on my brothers page, just to check it out, than I notice he was talking to this girl, I found her a bit attractive, so I checked out her profile but than I noticed that her age thing said she was 23, but my brother is 17, also her thing was on private so I couldnt really view her other pics.

I added her but before she accepted she asked me who I was, I told her to guess who I was but she never guessed, so I just told her I was...My brothers...brother lol.

After she added me and we talked for a bit, I asked her about her age and she said she wasn't really that old, I think she said she was around 14 or 15(Hell I don't know, but I do believe she is 16)

Than we both talked on msn for a bit talking about school and my brother and her ex's and stuff like that and she seemed to enjoy talking to me. She seemed even interested in talking on the phone but also said " I just think its weird because you are much much older" She told me she played a team on the Vollyball team and such. I guess she knew my brother pretty well in school

We never did get to talk on the phone, it was never mentioned in our future convos.

This is where I made the first mistake though, a few times i would message her on myspace but everytime she didn't reply back I would kinda complain about it(Being kinda needy and stuff) she felt bad and said " aww im sorry, blah blah"

At first she did like me, even put me on her top list, than a little later, about 2 weeks I think, she took me off the top list, but I thought "Aw well, no big deal"

I've asked if I can see one of her games, she said sure, but hardly spoke of it, I don't think she was delighted of the idea of seeing me though as far as I can tell.

eh screw it, I'll just skip to the part near the end because I can go on forever.

So, as time passes, she was alot less interested in me, one time I commented her on her page but didn't get a reply back, also the comment was deleted, so I kinda made a joke about it saying something like " you deleted my comment like..how could you?" like in a joke way, her responds to this was " What the hell are you talking about I didn't delete your comment!!!"

Being all mean and such, she liked my brother a whole lot better, saying things like " Its good to hear from you, thank you love ya" and stuff like that. She never does that to me! ever. And one time she left a comment on my brothers page saying "hey ryan! u never leave me comments anymore or message not feelin loved ane more ! are u mad or upset with me?? "

And I know she don't like him as a boyfriend as far as I know, but I don't know...

There is more to this story and I'll try and make it as short as I can..

Next time I talked to her I confronted about her behavior towards me and such, she acted like she didn't really care than I asked her " do you like talking to me"? Her responds was " I don't really care" and such..

Than we talked for only a little bit, but that its, saying that her and my brother hardly talk anymore and such..

So anyway, the next time I messaged her on msn, she invited me to join a convo with 2 other guys. She was complaining that my brother was not talking with her and such. So I talked to the other 2 guys in there, 1 guy was trying to start something with me for some reason, saying alot of things and I said alot of things back, im the processes..Kayla(The girl im talking about) Said some really mean and weird things like

"Ryan doesn't like me now because of you!!" what the hell, I had nothing to do with yet she kept accusing me! she was mad at me..

She also

"Shut up you immature idiot"

I dunno, she used to be so nice to me too and she's always defending my brother, its like she really likes him. Likes him WAY over me.

As soon as my brother responding to her, she left and said " oh ryans on bye"

I tried to talk with her again and she said " Leave me alone "

So whats the deal here? after that I told my other friend about it and she got pretty pissed at her. She 3 other girls send her emails and such.

To make it short, she said to them that she said sorry to me, that was BS! Also said " i don't even no aarron don't care to sorry if i affened him in anyway so can u all just drop it "

I deleted her off my myspace and msn, although I didn't block her on msn so she can still message if she wanted to, anyway, this is our last convo and after that I want you guys to tell me what you think

Kayla: ok well i no were not friends and u don't want to talk to me but can you tell your friends to stop messaging me please!

Me:Well I told Sarah to stop several weeks ago. hang on.

Kayla:ok

Me: She said she didn't message you.

Kayla: its not just one person its like 4 and its getting annoying

Me: oh jeez, hang on
You wouldn't happen to know where Ryan is would you?

me: He hasn't came home since yesterday..

Kayla: did you do something to him?

Me: Uhh no, he just never came home, Probably at a friends, Just thought I ask

Kayla: well there was a party yesterday but i don't no if he went

Me: But he usually comes home first and ask me to drive him to a friends house.

Kayla: there was a party idk if he went though

Me: If he went, he should of came home last night regardless

Kayla: but did u tell your friends to stop

Me: They shouldn't be bugging you anymore

Kayla: ok well i check on him i think i no where he might be well..thnkx for talking to your friends bi

Me: Where might he be??

Kayla: this place

me: Ok well I just wanted to make sure he was safe

Kayla: k

Me: Alright later Kayla

Kayla: Bye

*after that I told one of my friends to say sorry to her for bugging her and such*

Kayla: if you told her to send that message THANKS c ya around


Me: Yea I did tell her to say that

Kayla: Thanks


Sorry its so long, but I like to go into detail..

Its been like a month now though since I have not spoke to her at all, I guess me and her end on good terms but I wonder if I can try being her friend again in the future, when she is older. But I wonder what made her act so mean towards me though

and sometimes I get upset because I know she likes my brother a whole lot better than me...and she likes talking to him because she contacts him on msn but never bothers to message me or anything.

so tell me what you think

[vashti]

Jeez, sometimes I think you need smacking. Leave the kid alone and find someone your own age to converse with.

[Gigabitch]

Every time you post, I get more confused.

How many siblings do you have, and what are their ages and genders?

Do you do anything, ever, besides troll MySpace and post on LF about things that occured on MySpace?

How old are you? Are you always 21?

Are there a lot of you posting with this SN?

[Ellynn]

First off she's 16!! YOU ARE 21!

Second you never met her! She's on myspace. Myspace is a place for FRIENDS! (at least thats how I view it!)

Why not try going to bars or clubs or barnes and nobel or starbucks and find a woman of at LEAST 18 yrs old??

[Frasbee]

Do yourself a favor, get off myspace, get outside and find a real relationship.

Dumbass.

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Originally Posted by David12

But I wonder what made her act so mean towards me though

and sometimes I get upset because I know she likes my brother a whole lot better than me...and she likes talking to him because she contacts him on msn but never bothers to message me or anything.

so tell me what you think

Oh yeah, and I think you're a needy little bitch who's resorted to scopin' out the younger more vulnerable crowd because you're too insecure to look more towards your own age.

[David12]

I only wanted to be friends with her, thats all...

So why does he gets to be friends my brother but not me?

[David12]

Well. she knows my brother in real life at school and I could easily meet her in person....

I don't know why people get so paranoid Im not even looking for anything more than a friend with her..

She is so cute though, thats why im so Jealous that she pays A HELL lot more attention to my brother than me.

And she liked me before but I don't know what happened.

I guess it was some of the stupid things I've said to her, trying to make a Joke but turned out stupid but than again, that shouldnt matter

and im alot more socialable.than my brother is

[David12]

and as far as I know, she is kinda populer and I don't think she ever liked my brother more than a friend but still....why did she had to act that way towards me??

Whats with her defending Ryan saying things like "He is not stupid!!" or crap like that???

I didn't say that but other people did and yea..I don't know

[Frasbee]

The only reason why you want to be friends with her is because she's cute.

Either you're not aware of your own intentions or you're in denial.

A friend who doesn't want to be friends is not a friend at all.

You're pursuing her as if you want something more.

And you do, so shut up.

[TDurden]

It's unbelievable. If someone had asked me this morning if I could have less respect for you (david) I would've said "Who? That guy on loveforum? Nah, there's no way" yet somehow you managed to do it. Nothing short of a miracle really.

Because what you have just done is type out several pages worth of gibberish that stems from more nonsense which, unsurprisingly, comes from something mundane. You managed to turn your casual pursuit of your brother's friend into a giant mental catastrophe.

Leave the young one's alone. See a therapist and stop making mountains out of molehills.

Oh, and for **** sake get the hell off of Myspace

David, I deleted my myspace because it is a waste of time. I didn't try to make friends on myspace or anything, but I realized all the time in my life that I had wasted from dicking around on there. I have so many more things that I enjoy now. My life is busier and I like it more.

I highly suggest you delete your myspace, before you regret it as much as I did. Life is too short.

[Gigabitch]

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Originally Posted by David12

Well. she knows my brother in real life at school and I could easily meet her in person....

I don't know why people get so paranoid Im not even looking for anything more than a friend with her..

She is so cute though, thats why im so Jealous that she pays A HELL lot more attention to my brother than me.

And she liked me before but I don't know what happened.

I guess it was some of the stupid things I've said to her, trying to make a Joke but turned out stupid but than again, that shouldnt matter

and im alot more socialable.than my brother is

I know what happened. Somebody on MySpace warned her about you. Not a doubt in my mind.

[jurupa]

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Originally Posted by David12

Well. she knows my brother in real life at school and I could easily meet her in person....

DO that and Buba in the big house will be real friendly with you.

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I don't know why people get so paranoid Im not even looking for anything more than a friend with her..

She is 16 and your 21. She is way to freaking young to be your friend. I know girls that are 16, but they are not my friends by a long shot. The only reason I know them is because of the volunteering work I do.

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She is so cute though, thats why im so Jealous that she pays A HELL lot more attention to my brother than me.

Dude this sounds so wrong. Your brother seems to be her age and she should be paying attention to guys that are HER AGE not YOUR AGE, stick bastard.

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And she liked me before but I don't know what happened.

She found out who you are and that your 5 years older than her, and that you got problems.

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and im alot more socialable.than my brother is

I am going have to call bull shit on this one. If you where as sociable as you say as you are then you would be off MYSPACE and talking to girls YOUR AGE, not girls in HIGHSCHOOL.

David what the hell are you smoking because you seriously got problems you are either don't want admit to or don't know it.

[Kiechi]

Someone needs to hit some punani. You know, the legal age variety.

[fCukl0vee]

i've read a few of this guys posts. sounds like an obsessive serial killer or something. gotta love myspace