ok so there is this guy at my work let's call him jim. I've known him for about 3 years. personally i don't like him. i think he's a complete jerk but will admit he's not sore on the eyes.

i know him cause he went after a couple of my friends and i heard the stories and saw what happened. the only time i even got up close with him was 2 years ago when i was at a club with my coworkers and this nasty guy kept attempting to touch me. So i grab jim and dance with him till the guy dissappears. good done. that was about the last time i ever really talked to jim. if you even call that talking. lol. it was more "just dance with me" while i pressed my body against him.

fast forward to present time. all of a sudden everytime i run into him the past 2 weeks, today included, he has to try and have a convo or something with me. Of course it has to be in the AM when i'm caffine defficent and grumpy as hell.

I actually told him today...."are you talking to me???" i just don't get why he's being nice and bothering to say hi. I liked my not talking to people except the ones i like.

so i told a friend and her response was "maybe he likes you. or has found god/religion/a decent drug. or has recently had a near-death experience and has realized it is imperative to be nice to others."

which thankfully brightened up my monday blahs.

But seriously. why the hell does jim want to be saying hi to me now??? he's being more friendly then when we had to fix an error at work years ago when i didn't hate him.

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why put on this macho thing?

hello... why do you think they are the stronger species??? its the male ego. all have it. it's when they use it. lmao

hell and they wonder why there are so many lesbians today.

i think they all must of watched this movie in grade school while we watched that horrible "puberty movie" and theirs was "what to say to a girl....by men, for men"

Simple answer - He wants to sleep with you. No guy ever goes out of his way to be nice to a woman unless he wants to have sex with them. It's just a fact of maleness.

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Because a hard man is good to find.

Not true...

But in a lot of cases, true (esp. if he had a history as far as avoiding your or something like that..which in your case is true.)

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damn it! i was hoping he was on drugs!

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(question and answer of the day)

why put on this macho thing?

hello... why do you think they are the stronger species??? its the male ego. all have it. it's when they use it. lmao

hell and they wonder why there are so many lesbians today.

i think they all must of watched this movie in grade school while we watched that horrible "puberty movie" and theirs was "what to say to a girl....by men, for men"

Halla hes a freak! If you ignore him he'll keep bugging you-so next time he acts say out of line with you-or youre at your wits end with his annoyance-tell him youre taken..and youre not interested.

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everything happens for a reason...

Or just use him for sex. Not that I condone such actions.

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Because a hard man is good to find.

wtf - why dont anyone use me for sex ? I wont mind - really...

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Yeah... That's right.

-Billy

i am not that desprate iron.

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(question and answer of the day)

why put on this macho thing?

hello... why do you think they are the stronger species??? its the male ego. all have it. it's when they use it. lmao

hell and they wonder why there are so many lesbians today.

i think they all must of watched this movie in grade school while we watched that horrible "puberty movie" and theirs was "what to say to a girl....by men, for men"

I never meant to imply you were. That's why you'd be 'using' him. Hell, guys do it all the time - have sex with a woman they'd have no interest in 'dating', just for sex. Not that I'd condone such actions.

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Because a hard man is good to find.

..USE ME PLEASE!!! j/k

Halla..tell him your a lesbian and that the thought of him touching your makes your skin crawl..

lol

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- - Eleanor Roosevelt
" It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
- - Michael Nolan
"...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... yours truly
" The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir

Actually, not all guys are pigs. Hard to believe, but it's true.

Dragoon, I would agree, not all guys are pigs. Just playing the odds. And the odds are WAY in favor of him wanting to sleep with her.

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Because a hard man is good to find.

and it's a reason why i don't like him.

lmao. he knows i'm not jane.

thankfully i haven't seen him today. i changed my break times and threw off my whole day.

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(question and answer of the day)

why put on this macho thing?

hello... why do you think they are the stronger species??? its the male ego. all have it. it's when they use it. lmao

hell and they wonder why there are so many lesbians today.

i think they all must of watched this movie in grade school while we watched that horrible "puberty movie" and theirs was "what to say to a girl....by men, for men"

Dragoon is right.....Iron is right......squirrley is always right.....I say stab him.

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Heit ist mein taug.

lmao. i can glare really good. i don't think stabbing would go over too well with the security guards right around the corner.

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(question and answer of the day)

why put on this macho thing?

hello... why do you think they are the stronger species??? its the male ego. all have it. it's when they use it. lmao

hell and they wonder why there are so many lesbians today.

i think they all must of watched this movie in grade school while we watched that horrible "puberty movie" and theirs was "what to say to a girl....by men, for men"