Doesnt It Suck - Love Forum

Craige · #1 (**permalink**) 25-05-04, 08:43 PM

for some reason, as soon as you find yourelf a girl who will go out with you, every chick youve ever liked tells you how much they like you, well thats what just happened to me anyway....bugger !

dragoon · #2 (**permalink**) 25-05-04, 08:58 PM

Sounds like highschool

Of course. Suddenly they've lost your attention, and they want it back.

sfalexi · #3 (**permalink**) 25-05-04, 09:19 PM

And now that you're dating someone, you feel a lot more comfortable/confident around girls and it shows. And it makes you more attractive.

Alexi

BillyGalbreath · #4 (**permalink**) 25-05-04, 09:33 PM

Same thing is kinda happening to me - I LOVE it - hehehe - I got all my ex's jealous and I have all these women around me now that I used to like and they like me now or something... BUT - hehe

- I got the upper hand - I am still single.

Ironliftr3 · #5 (**permalink**) 25-05-04, 09:35 PM

It's the "I don't give a shit" attitude. A combination of them losing your interest, and your confidece level, and not appearing to be 'on the chase'. If you can keep that attitude ALL the time, meeting women becomes much less of a problem, whether you are involved with someone, or not.

sfalexi · #6 (**permalink**) 25-05-04, 09:58 PM

Iron's got it.

Ironliftr3 · #7 (**permalink**) 25-05-04, 11:33 PM

That being said...what it TRULEY comes down to, is BE HAPPY WITH YOUR LIFE.

When you're not looking for someone ELSE to MAKE you happy, or to make your life complete, you WILL naturally become more attractive to the opposite sex. It's a matter of 'need'. When you don't emit that 'need' vibe, they will come.

The Jerry Mcguire quote that every women fell in love with "you complete me" is BULLSHIT. **** that, I'm friggin COMPLETE on my own....I don't NEED you. And I don't want to be NEEDED. Perhaps "complement" me would be a better choice.

Illusional · #8 (**permalink**) 26-05-04, 05:08 AM

taken people are ALWAYS more attractive. raverboy

Breezy18 · #9 (**permalink**) 26-05-04, 08:19 AM

It's kinda like a cat. No, REALLY. Cats are completely disinterested if you try coaxing them into your lap. But as soon as you start ignoring them, (to do something trivial like SLEEP), there all up in your face wanting attention and shit.

Iron, I liked that Jerry Maguire quote.

Guess I'm a hopless romantic. But the best line was at the end when Renee said, "you had me at hello". Yeah. That was good.

TheBigMJ · #10 (**permalink**) 26-05-04, 08:30 AM

Erm... you're a girl... course you like that quote! lol

I sorta know what you mean about cats.. I hate the little bastards... ahem!

One of my mates has a dog thats absoluteley mad about attention... you walk through the door and it wont leave you alone at all unless you put a thick door between you

squirrley · #11 (**permalink**) 26-05-04, 08:43 AM

hey im a girl and I LOVE that quote...I think its one of the best out there! I agree with you Breezy!!! "You had me at hello" awww..me getting all mushy.

But I also agree with Iron with EVERYTHING HE said-but I have believed that now for about 5 years...so it comes with time you get that...and a lot of hard work!

Illusional · #12 (**permalink**) 26-05-04, 02:42 PM

that quote, "you had me at hello" is awfully superficial don't you think? already knowing that you want to marry this person and sleep with that is basing this decision totally on looks. hey, don't get me wrong cuz i do the same things, but it's something to consider aside from all that mushy gushy stuff. raverboy

squirrley · #13 (**permalink**) 26-05-04, 06:02 PM

raver it was all in the TONE....superficial? Well I think everyone when they meet and get together they eventually have their own little sayings...

Breezy18 · #14 (**permalink**) 26-05-04, 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Illusional

that quote, "you had me at hello" is awfully superficial don't you think?

If a guy said it to me on our first meeting then, yeah, I agree. Very superficial. But in the movie they had already been married and had a relationship. When he showed up at her door, she thought she would never see him again and was already TOTALLY in love with him. That's why she said it. Just him showing up was enough to sweep her off her feet.

Like I said, very romantic and a total "movie" moment. Things like that don't happen IRL.

squirrley · #15 (**permalink**) 26-05-04, 08:05 PM

They do-just not to us normal kin-folk!

But Ive had some pretty damn exciting moments recently-which constitutes the awww factor...

Baby-make a wish.

see you in a couple days...