how old? - Love Forum

lady_heart · #1 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 01:34 PM

hi all! im a newbie here n i dont know if this question has been asked before...sometimes, i feel old in reading some topics....so

i wanna know how old r u?

how old is ur hubby/wife,,,,bf/gf (or ex bf/gf)?

i wanna start with myself....

im 35 yrs old......n my bf is 29 yrs old.

Clifton · #2 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 02:02 PM

im 20 my last gf was 18

sfalexi · #3 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 02:10 PM

21, my ex (whom I still date . . . it's a wierd situation and if you want to know more just search for some threads that I've started) is 27.

lady_heart · #4 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 02:33 PM

hi spalexi......at least im not alone that my guy is 6 yrs younger than i am.....

squirrley · #5 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 03:39 PM

33, and well from my posts, kinda a thing with Iron whose 34! So the ages vary around here a bit!

Zekk_T_Strife · #6 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 06:43 PM

I'm 20 and my current lady friend is 19, very close to 20.

Clifton · #7 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 09:50 PM

squirly you need to hook me up with some of your friends, these young girls cant handle me!!

squirrley · #8 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 10:12 PM

aww-outlines youre growing up fast man! You know what you want so now you have to search and seek my friend! The question is WHERE?

m0by · #9 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 10:47 PM

I'm 30 and single, but there is a woman I'm interested in going out with and she's 24.

Fawn · #10 (**permalink**) 29-05-04, 11:50 PM

I'm 18 (19 in Nov.)

Currently seeing someone thats 22 (turning 23 in August).

hehe... I do best with older men

Innova · #11 (**permalink**) 30-05-04, 01:04 AM

I'm 19, currently seeing nobody but if ya wanna throw somethin out there my ex is 18.

Breezy18 · #12 (**permalink**) 30-05-04, 01:13 AM

I'm old enough to know better, but still too young to care! hahahaha
Okay, okay. I'm 103.
Alright, I'm not 103. I'm actually 104.

Annoyed yet? Then my job here is done! Seriously, I don't like telling my age because it creates your typical judgement calls. I don't like being placed with a particular group at any given time. I've always been this way. When I was 18, people assumed I lacked responsibility and maturity before I could prove them right or wrong. Now I'm in my thirties and people assume a whole host of other negative things. Just like when you say the word divorced. It creates an image in people's minds and it's not always a good one. I'm an individual and my circumstances and life are unique to me. My last boyfriend was nine years younger than me. But I have dated guys the same age and older as well. It depends on the guy.

dragoon · #13 (**permalink**) 30-05-04, 05:37 AM

I am 26. Last girlfriend was 27 (she acted like she was 15 though).

Zekk_T_Strife · #14 (**permalink**) 30-05-04, 05:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Breezy18

Seriously, I don't like telling my age because it creates your typical judgement calls. I don't like being placed with a particular group at any given time. I've always been this way. When I was 18, people assumed I lacked responsibility and maturity before I could prove them right or wrong. Now I'm in my thirties and people assume a whole host of other negative things. Just like when you say the word divorced. It creates an image in people's minds and it's not always a good one. I'm an individual and my circumstances and life are unique to me.

Ugh, it's so true and yet I feel ashamed that I often end up doing just that when I hear things.

Breezy18 · #15 (**permalink**) 30-05-04, 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Zekk_T_Strife

Ugh, it's so true and yet I feel ashamed that I often end up doing just that when I hear things.

Awe, don't worry Zekk, my friend. I've even been guilty of that, even though I HATE having it done to me. BUT, as time has gone on, I learn to judge less and listen more. With experience comes wisdom, (most of the time). It's true. Youth really IS wasted on the young. Why couldn't we start out at the end and go backwards? By the time you learn how lucky you are and have the confidence to really do the things you enjoy, your youth has slipped away. I guess that's what they call a mid-life crisis. But I'm not there YET! lol