What would you do? - Love Forum

someonenew · #1 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 03:07 AM

My friends usually say that if two people fell in love with you, you should go to the one that love you. But to me, I rather go to the one that I love. If that happens to be you, who would you chose? the one you love or the one that love you?

PAgirl7 · #2 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 04:41 AM

Always go for the person that you love. There is no point in starting a relationship with someone who loves you if you don't love them back. It's unfair to both of you.

Illusional · #3 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 05:08 AM

umm..i would go to the person that i wanted to be with but there are also a lot of other factors that would help me decide this... it seems like you're probably younger that i am, so i would say not to rush this, and take your time in getting to know them both. raverboy

GBRaul · #4 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 09:20 PM

I agree with PAgirl7. I say go for the person you love. You love her right? How would you feel if you were trying to make this person who loves you happy while that person you love sees you attached and goes off with another? Maybe this is a little selfish, but we all are aren't we? But don't just cut the other off. Guys and girls don't have to be lovers/strangers, there's still friends! And you'd never know what would happen in the future either

PAgirl7 · #5 (**permalink**) 20-08-04, 05:00 AM

GB is right. There's nothing wrong with being friends with this other girl, but why make yourself miserable just to please someone else? I don't think it is selfish to fulfill your base needs, such as LOVE!

someonenew · #6 (**permalink**) 20-08-04, 08:01 AM

Thanks alot.. I guess I can chose the one I love and be friend with the other one. But the only thing I scare the most is our friendship. Once again thank you for all your help

nomas · #7 (**permalink**) 20-08-04, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by someonenew

My friends usually say that if two people fell in love with you, you should go to the one that love you. But to me, I rather go to the one that I love. If that happens to be you, who would you chose? the one you love or the one that love you?

You are saying that you have two people who fell in love with you. So by going for the one that loves you, I'm assuming you mean, the one that seems to love you more. But the fact remains that both love you, right? In this case, since they both love you already, you definitely go for the one you feel for more. I guess unless there's a huge gap in other factors...I just don't have enough info...there are a lot of factors involved, but just from what you gave me, I guess go for the one you love.

Freddie