Most woman that meet me or know of me say stuff like "where's all your woman at tonight?" Insinuating that I'm a player and a dawg.

And while I can't confirm or deny such accusations, I will say for some strange reason at the end of the day, I wish I was a father and a husband.

So far from being any of those, I was wondering how many of you fellow tuff guys feel that way.

Nope. I don't really want a child (ever). If whoever I end up sticking with in the long run DOES want a child (which chances are a girl might), I'll do it for her, but I'd try to push adoption rather than have one of my own. And lastly, if all else fails, I'd have a kid.

I just don't want to be a dad. I don't have the 'urge' to spread my seed, or continue my lineage or anything. I just want to find a woman that'll make me happy and spend time being with her and not having to worry about others. Call it selfish, but to me, at least the way I view it as of now and have viewed it for a few years, the costs of having kids far outweigh the benefits.

I have about as much business with a kid as I do commanding the space shuttle.

I think I’ll do the world a favor and not procreate.

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Most of us know why we're alone...what we don't know is why we can't seem to do anything about it.

there's nothing wrong with that. i think you should just be very picky and think about the the women you're with and the reasons you're with them and why they're with you.

When I was somewhat of a younger lad, (considering I am only 32 now), I loved hanging out with various women and seeing how many I could land into bed. However, as a dad now, of a beautiful 2 yr. old daughter and married for now over 4 yrs., I will tell you that you will find nothing more sweet than being a dad and a husband. It will definitely be the most satisfying lifestyle you can ever live! So when your friends are always wanting to know if your gonna be the player tonite, you can laugh it off and look forward to all the good times your gonna have when you have your own family. I thank god every night that I have what I have because money couldn't buy me away from it!

being a dad is cool, but leave it til your ready. too soon and you'll mess up your life and the poor kids.

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my opinion is better than yours.

I've always dreamed of being a father. I'm excited for the day I can start my own family. But right now? No. But when the time is right I can't wait to have children.

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Heit ist mein taug.

Of course I want to be a dad, a father to an underground army, an army that will soon take over the world. Too soon will my minions be marching down your streets. All I need are some fertile females...

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Heil Frasbee

not now..but in a few years i will be ready to settle down and start a family.

raverboy

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...this is just my perspective on the situation...