My wife has gained weight over the years, but I still find her attractive and sexy. However, she still wears the things she wore when she was smaller; short tops, sleeveless shirts, super tight jeans. How do I get her to stop wearing those things? They are not becoming for someone her size, but she thinks she looks good. Every time I drop hints it starts an argument. Please help!

Go clothes shopping with her.

Dunno if she'd like it.

But help her pick new clothes out.

Actually.

Let her do the same for you.

Girls, if they really want to be found attractive should just wear clothes that compliment them and their body.

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I'm finally working class and I don't even shave my head no more.

Take a LOT of pictures. Let her see and come to it herself. BTW: Big girls, Spandex is NOT your friend.

I see the makings of a very mean and nasty thread...

I hope it doesn't get nasty. I like the idea of taking lots of pictures, maybe she will realize that what she is wearing is too small and too revealing for her size.

Maybe you guys can work out together and eat healthy meals again, that will work

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It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone"

People change and forget to tell each other.

Haha, so, mosat of the american women are on such a good opinion of themselves?

She is arrogant egoist, ugly and stupid. Now go and live with it.


Sorry, no regrets.

ooooooookay.

well why has she been gaining weight? have you been going out to eat a lot?

Yes.

All of them.

There are no exceptions.

None.

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I'm finally working class and I don't even shave my head no more.

I have a pretty good opinion of myself, so I guess I might accept the arrogant egoist characterization, but I object to the ugly and stupid part.

i swear boobaa, i can't get even get angry about what you say because it's so utterly weird.

sometimes you have to be mean to be nice. in other words, instead of dropping hints, tell her the truth.

raverboy

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...this is just my perspective on the situation...

yep. tell her straight up. some people just don't know until somebody tells them.

Why are married women heavier than single women?
Single women come home, see what's in the fridge and go to bed. Married
women come home, see what's in bed and go to the fridge.

LOL!!

That was pretty funny :)