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12-08-05, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted by rglove Look, from what I can see you have an attraction to women with an exotic flare. The fact is the right mixture of exotic features can be very attractive. And the women you describe having a penchant for have a nice mixture of feature. The have that exotic look to them, but yet still have classic westernize beauty. The fact is when a Italian, Spanish, or Western European woman is hot/attractive she is really hot and attractive. And I gather that you are attracted to the lure, the promise of attractiveness, of the higher end and more beautiful of the females in these particular ethnicities, and thatis understandable. As you're not excluding attractive women of other ethnicities than you're fine!!! You've put together the words that I couldn't find, thanks rglove!
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Originally Posted by rglove Look, from what I can see you have an attraction to women with an exotic flare. The fact is the right mixture of exotic features can be very attractive. And the women you describe having a penchant for have a nice mixture of feature. The have that exotic look to them, but yet still have classic westernize beauty. The fact is when a Italian, Spanish, or Western European woman is hot/attractive she is really hot and attractive. And I gather that you are attracted to the lure, the promise of attractiveness, of the higher end and more beautiful of the females in these particular ethnicities, and thatis understandable. As you're not excluding attractive women of other ethnicities than you're fine!!! What about I'm excluding attractive women of other ethnicities? I'm not a racist or something it's just that they can't get my blood pump up.
Here is something to think about :
If a white kid grew up in an Asian country, at the end, would he/she prefer a white or asian companion?
If an asian kid grew up in a white country, would they prefer white over asian?
the same thing applies to black people.
I'm wondering if this have to do with the enviroment you live in or it's something that you are born with e.g. attracted by other ethics  | |
13-08-05, 03:36 AM
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Originally Posted by nickia What about I'm excluding attractive women of other ethnicities? I'm not a racist or something it's just that they can't get my blood pump up.
Here is something to think about:
If a white kid grew up in an Asian country, at the end, would he/she prefer a white or asian companion?
If an asian kid grew up in a white country, would they prefer white over asian?
the same thing applies to black people.
I'm wondering if this have to do with the enviroment you live in or it's something that you are born with e.g. attracted by other ethics "White country"? Heh... | |
13-08-05, 03:40 AM
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Originally Posted by nickia If an asian kid grew up in a white country, would they prefer white over asian? If he was born and raised, I'd put my money that he'd be attracted to asians. Culture has a lot to do with it.
Look at some convservatives, they're raised to think that it's only "right" and "natural" for them to marry somebody else of their own kind. And the thought of marrying somebody outside of their "race" becomes disgusting.
But when you're raised to accept other people and cultures your preferences of the opposite sex will most likely be broadened.
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13-08-05, 04:39 AM
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Originally Posted by RSK The list goes on and on. And I've met all types. I guess every race has their fair share of 'posers', but i think it's more pronouced in the east indian community.
I really went off on a tangent here, so I'll thank you again for your post, Thanks. Really interesting observation RSK... and i totally agree. The problem is i think a lott of east Indians have issues accepting their culture....there seems to be a sense of embarrasment...and it's really sad because everyone else seems to love the indian culture wayyy more than them....
it's true that many indians lose their culture...but it's really a result of their own inability to accept it...not "westernization".
most other cultures came here and yet they've held on to their culture, their language...their religion....but they are not FOBs
As far as indians go... the word FOB means "Fresh Of the Boat"...there are many indians i've met who were born here but still display "fobbish" qualities...but you can't really classify them as FOBs
i just don't think it's right to group them...because it's grouping that wants newly arrived indians to shed their culture and become "posers"....
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| | | ok i read your toughts and it's not crazy at all......by the way i'm a girl and all of my life i've been attracted to the same type of men as you are in women.....it's not crazy it just an attraction you and i have diffrent taste in people when it comes to who you want to be with and that's not crazy or stuip........this is something that cannot be controled........i'm an african american and i am no way attracted to any black guys in this worl none and have never dated one and will never date one i'm just not attracted to them......every body has a type and your as well as mine are diffrent...all of my life i've dated hipanics and latins and cauation guy ......i have black friends that are guy but none of them interest me......it's normal...... | |
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| | | it's normal  ok just because you dont have a prefect life ...that's not the reason you're attracted to diffrent.....youre human that's the only cause for this diffrence of attraction like i said it's normal....] | |
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Originally Posted by Frasbee If he was born and raised, I'd put my money that he'd be attracted to asians. Culture has a lot to do with it.
Look at some convservatives, they're raised to think that it's only "right" and "natural" for them to marry somebody else of their own kind. And the thought of marrying somebody outside of their "race" becomes disgusting.
But when you're raised to accept other people and cultures your preferences of the opposite sex will most likely be broadened. But isn't liking somebody has to do with one's instinct?
Maybe there is a confusion in my post, I was talking strictly about apperance.
For example: some White guys browsering on the internet for black girls because they like black girls better than other races. Or Asian males look for white girls because they are attracted by them.
Could the enviornment and belief affect the way people judge beauty? | |
13-08-05, 09:31 AM
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| | | I don't know if environment and belief has anything to do with the way you judge beauty.
My bf was raised in India and taught all his life that Indian women are the most beautiful, the most exotic, the most cultured, and he never expected to date or marry anyone but an Indian woman. If his environment and teachings were to be any indication of who he'd be attracted to, he'd have only been with Indian women. However, he found himself attracted to and has dated women of all ethnicities. Although he maintains an attraction to Indian women, he doesn't 'prefer' them over any other race. It's just innate attraction. | |
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Originally Posted by nickia But isn't liking somebody has to do with one's instinct?
Could the enviornment and belief affect the way people judge beauty? You're asking two completely questions here.
I believe it's a little of both, but I lean more towards the influence.
I have many negative experiences and prejudices towards asians and as a result I find them less attractive than others.
I was also raised on the white side of my family.
However I do find some black girls and those outside of my "race" as attractive.
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| | | I've had many negative experiences with asians too, but it doesn't mean I haven't found more than a few of them pretty damn fine! Guys, that is... | |
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| | | I won't deny that there are some really hot asians out there, but I would never think to get involved with them.
It's just a no no for me.
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| | I've developed a huge liking towards mixed races, prefferably the black and white mix. For the asian thing, I actually find Indian type of asian attractive. It's wierd because there obviously hasn't been any cultural influence and I doubt there was any enviormental influence either. As far as I can remember Indians have always had a not-so-good reputation in the UK with the stereotypes. With the recent high with the muslim attacks, it isn't doing them any favors either. I don't know, I just find them hella attractive. However I'm still waiting to come across a half indian/half white girl  . HOWEVER, I think my main attraction may be cacausian chicks.
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Originally Posted by Kiechi I've developed a huge liking towards mixed races, prefferably the black and white mix. For the asian thing, I actually find Indian type of asian attractive. It's wierd because there obviously hasn't been any cultural influence and I doubt there was any enviormental influence either. As far as I can remember Indians have always had a not-so-good reputation in the UK with the stereotypes. With the recent high with the muslim attacks, it isn't doing them any favors either. I don't know, I just find them hella attractive. However I'm still waiting to come across a half indian/half white girl . HOWEVER, I think my main attraction may be cacausian chicks. I have never had a negative experience with an Asian and actually have an overall positive opinion of Asians, and so I'm kind of surprised to read these comments.
Anyway, Kiechi, I'm a little confused - are you saying you like Indians (from India) but they are generally not well-received in the UK because people assume they are Muslim? (Most Indians are not, as I am sure you know.) | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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