Is She Out There...?

[RSK]

Here are the facts:

I'm not affectionate (except probably in bed - I imagine myself to be a physical love maker rather than an emotional love maker)

I wouldn't hold hands

I wouldn't cuddle

I don't like suprises

You probably think I'm a shallow person (It's probably true). I express myself from within rather from without. And you also may think I'm materialistic (partly true), and that I'm attracted to woman mainly because of looks initially (very true).

The above is what I think 'others' would consider BAD traits to have. But they are all true.

Of course, I am much more than I have written above. But do you think there are ANY women out there that would still be able to adapt to me?

For the Ladies that browse these forums, what do you think?

I figured the traits above work to my advantage, because they make me mysterious kind of guy. But how long does that last? Anyway, any I PROMISE not to feel hurt for ANY kind of response you give me, Thanks!

[Tone]

Yes, RSK, there is plenty.

[RSK]

Thanks tone. Well, I can cancel that off my list of:

"Things I need to know before I hit the dating Scene".

Thank again.

[Frasbee]

You're in introvert.

Try bein' more extro.

most girls like to cuddle and hold hands...do you think that is just not very manly or something? why is that?

[Tone]

Most, maybe.

But there are girls out there who don't.

Basically, RSK you are who you are. Who knows - you might find that when you do meet that special girl you WILL want to cuddle and hold hands, not because it's somethin you enjoy, but because it's something she enjoys and you will enjoy fullfilling her enjoyment. Enjoy all that? ;p

Once you do meet that girl you'll learn a lot more about yourself you never knew. So basically - you are who you are.. and that's what some girl is going to fall in love with..

[Frasbee]

Let's face it though.

Some of us might die without having never found that somebody.

Unfortunate but true.

[Tone]

Welcome to my nightmare...

[Frasbee]

Considering that I could very well die today, I'd have to say I'm pretty satisfied with how my life has gone. Regardless of having not found somebody.

[Ellynn]

I can see how holding hands isnt that big of a deal.....but why don't you want to cuddle w/ a girl? Thats seriously the best part....and how can you go to sex without cuddling first. It kinda sets the mood sometimes.....and even after sex.

Im sure there is your type of woman out there.......but honestly its gonna be hard to find.

[Kiechi]

It's easier just to get with the wrong women. Unrequieted love sucks.