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01-09-06, 03:01 PM
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| | | Confidence tips This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
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01-09-06, 03:06 PM
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| | | Practice Practice Practice
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01-09-06, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Frasbee  Practice Practice Practice And exactly how/what do you supose people should practise? | |
01-09-06, 03:44 PM
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| | | It depends what you want to be confident in. Do you want to be confident within yourself or when it comes to approaching girls/boys?
Depends.
But it is practice.
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To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love; but then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer, to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love; to be happy then is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy; therefore to be unhappy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down.
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01-09-06, 11:49 PM
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| | | Start with push ups.
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01-09-06, 11:55 PM
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| | | Start with push ups, and then move on to interactions with strangers, like the grocery clerk or the bus driver. Start saying hi when you don't have to. | |
02-09-06, 12:07 AM
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| | | if somebody gives you a compliment, say thank you! a lot of people don't, they're like "oh it's nothing", etc.
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02-09-06, 12:07 AM
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| | | Holy crap Giga, you're 38??
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02-09-06, 12:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Frasbee Holy crap Giga, you're 38?? Did you think I could have packed all the stuff I've been through in my life into less time than that? | |
02-09-06, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Gigabitch Did you think I could have packed all the stuff I've been through in my life into less time than that? That's just it though.
As I mentioned before.
I really don't know much about yours or Vash's past.
Don't know what brought you to where you are today.
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02-09-06, 01:32 AM
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| | | It would be an irresponsible use of bandwidth to tell you the whole story of how I went from Bitch to Megabitch to Gigabitch.
Hmmm. Maybe you could put together a 20 questions thread with the things you most want to know about everyone here. For instance, one question could be:
Describe your parents in three words.
My answer would definitely NOT be "Ozzie and Harriet"
Anyway, I'd do it myself, but I have to go now and take my barking lunatic mother out to lunch for her birthday.
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02-09-06, 02:13 AM
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| | | 20 questions, eh?
I don't like such formalities.
Then again, it's not easy to talk with you guys one on one in here...
I dunno, I might come up with somethin'.
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02-09-06, 04:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Gigabitch It would be an irresponsible use of bandwidth to tell you the whole story of how I went from Bitch to Megabitch to Gigabitch. I love you.  | |
02-09-06, 06:59 AM
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Originally Posted by mahouyuki This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
Any tips on how to be more confdent for the shy and not-so-confident? Be confident with yourself. Simple as. | |
03-09-06, 11:41 AM
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| | | Just do it. Nike style.
To be honest, I used to be really lacking in self-confidence.
One method that worked extremely well for me, was to consistently joke about being better than everyone else.
That way, most people don't take it offensively, but then I still voice confidence.
Mantras really do work. Just say something to prop up your ego over and over while meditating.
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