stupid parents

i had a pretty good day at school and work. i got home, though, and after i set down my books, i noticed a difference in my room. i looked around and i realized something: my parents were rummaging through my room.

there are muddy footprints on my carpet and all my stuff is out of order, things are missing. i am very. very. angry.

they had no reason to go through my shit. i am not hiding anything. i don't own anything illegal, i don't own anything bad, but they went through my shit. actually it had to be my stepdad because of the muddy god damn footprints.

just the fact that someone stepped foot in my room pisses me off, but going through my shit spews all kinds of piss in the air. i'm feeling very vengeful. next time they're all out of the house, i'm going through their shit. i'm going to take all my stepdad's pornos and put them in a convenient location for my mom to find out. i'm going to get on his computer and delete all his important files and change all the passwords on his email and shit. then i'm going to make a little bond fire in the kitchen with all his cigarettes. then i'm going to throw all my little sister's toys all over their room. i'm going to piss all over their bathroom floor. i'm going to do as many things as i can to pay them back.

****ing parents.

[Taryn]

wow that really sucks wing, sorry to hear it. just curious, do you know why they were going through your room?

well one of the things that's missing is my airsoft equipment, which consists of a spring loaded sniping rifle and 3 pistols, and a surplus military field jacket. i'm not sure what else they took yet.

i don't want to confront them. my parents are assholes. my stepdad actually just told my two year old sister to "shut the **** up and get the hell out of his way" i'm going to find my shit and take it back the first chance i get.

[vashti]

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Originally Posted by lilwing

well one of the things that's missing is my airsoft equipment, which consists of a spring loaded sniping rifle and 3 pistols, and a surplus military field jacket. i'm not sure what else they took yet.

Do you mean *real* firearms? Sorry, but if so, I would high-five your dad.

[Gribble]

Airsoft. Kinda like BB guns, Vashti.

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Originally Posted by vashti

Do you mean *real* firearms? Sorry, but if so, I would high-five your dad.

no. my guns are in a locked case in the back of my closet.

airsoft equipment is more safe. they use plastic bbs and fire at a small speed (around 200 fps) which is barely enough to leave a welt/bruise. it's like paintball, but it's more painful and realistic.

my friends and i play a tactical game with airsoft guns in our freetime.

i'm thinking about going in their room and stealing all my shit back, and then installing a dead bolt lock on my door. sound like a good idea?

[Taryn]

personally, i like my room to be a little private place i can go to. people intruding without warning is very rude. at the very least, you should knock or ask before you go in.

wing, if you dont need the rifle, then id advise you just stay out of it for awhile, let everyone cool down. it's no good rushing in with a hothead, think things over, if they settle down some, you may just be able to negotiate it with them

this is not the first time this has happened. everybody in my family just walks up in my room and takes stuff. my mom took some ****ing money too. she does that every time. i can't leave change on my desk and expect it to be there when i get back.

it's beyond ridiculous. brother steals shit and then claims it is his. step dad takes things just to piss me off.

[Taryn]

how old are you wing? can you move out? even for awhile.

if there's such a lack of trust and respect, i wouldn't want to live there. either that, or you could get a lock like you mentioned

sorry to hear about this

[clynn]

That doesn't sound very good at all.

Yuck!

Sorry to hear about this.

Step-parents can be very unreasonable (Speaking as someone who grew up with an unreasonable one).

Here's to the Fall !!!!! (when you move out to go to college, right????)

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Originally Posted by Taryn

how old are you wing? can you move out? even for awhile.

if there's such a lack of trust and respect, i wouldn't want to live there. either that, or you could get a lock like you mentioned

sorry to hear about this

i'm 18. i don't make enough money to move out.. but my college will be paid for by the government, so as soon as i move out, i will be gone for good.

[Gigabitch]

I don't think you want to start a full-on war with your stepdad right now. Nobody will win and it'll just make things worse for your sister and your wacko brother.

Damn, I just want to shake your mom until her eyes rattle in her head. Did she know your stepdad was such an asshole before she moved to Nowhere, SD to be with him?

I totally feel for you- my dad used to go through my shit all the time, read my journal, etc. He was also a volatile son of a bitch. Sounds like your stepdad is the same kind.

Get a calendar and start counting the days until you get out of there. Maybe when you graduate you can get a job and just work all the time. The present doesn't matter as much as the future. Just get through it.

[vashti]

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Originally Posted by lilwing

no. my guns are in a locked case in the back of my closet.

airsoft equipment is more safe. they use plastic bbs and fire at a small speed (around 200 fps) which is barely enough to leave a welt/bruise. it's like paintball, but it's more painful and realistic.

my friends and i play a tactical game with airsoft guns in our freetime.

I don't understand... why would he want your *toys*?? How old is he?

[Tiay]

ouch, ouch! is there nobody you can move in with instead or something? I know that's a lot easier for me to say than to do.

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Originally Posted by lilwing

then i'm going to make a little bond fire in the kitchen with all his cigarettes.

hah, that made me laugh. but seriously, you'll just piss him off even more, and then he'll retaliate, and it'll be worse mess than it is now. you know this.