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02-05-07, 09:02 AM
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| | | a phobia i have this weird phobia, and i want to get over it, but i'm not sure how..
i'm afraid to give oral sex or have any kind of sex with a woman that has slept with another man. it's tough to admit. i WANT to sleep with women i know who aren't virgins... but i have a part of me that doesn't want to either...
i'm not with a girl or anything right now, but i just want to get over it, just incase i end up with a nice girlfriend that has had sex before. i'm not sure what i can do to get over it, and i'm not sure why it disgusts me..
please help me figure out why it disgusts me and give me pointers on what i can do to get over it. 
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02-05-07, 09:06 AM
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02-05-07, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Frasbee  Stop watching porn for one. interesting. i'm curious, how would porn trigger this phobia?
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02-05-07, 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted by lilwing interesting. i'm curious, how would porn trigger this phobia? Would you ever date one of those women after viewing them in one of their movies?
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02-05-07, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Frasbee Would you ever date one of those women after viewing them in one of their movies? no way! i'd probably get really angry because i watched them have sex with someone else.
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02-05-07, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by lilwing no way! i'd probably get really angry because i watched them have sex with someone else. Exactly, but what you don't know, can't hurt you.
Unless of course it's an STI.
Straight up, try this, next time you inquire about a girls sexual background, don't go any farther than whether or not she's carrying anything, and what she prefers.
Do not ask a question you don't want to know the answer to.
We both know whether a girl is a virgin or not doesn't really matter anyway.
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| | | What about the pron stars that do lesbian only, Lilwing? Would you date one of them? | |
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Originally Posted by Gribble What about the pron stars that do lesbian only, Lilwing? Would you date one of them? i doubt they would go out with me unless i looked that feminine 
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| | | Dating porn stars? I am not sure that is a good idea, unless you get one that makes a lot of money.......... | |
03-05-07, 04:48 AM
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Originally Posted by jurupa Dating porn stars? I am not sure that is a good idea, unless you get one that makes a lot of money.......... i thought you hated gold diggers.
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Originally Posted by lilwing i thought you hated gold diggers. Female ones, not male ones. | |
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| | | Wait, didn't you banged that girl in your Oldsmobile?
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04-05-07, 01:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Only-virgins Wait, didn't you banged that girl in your Oldsmobile? yea, that's why i posted this, basically. i think i really didn't care because i only wanted sex.. but now i'm looking at more of a relationship type thing, where finding out about a girl's sex life would most likely offend me.
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Originally Posted by lilwing yea, that's why i posted this, basically. i think i really didn't care because i only wanted sex.. but now i'm looking at more of a relationship type thing, where finding out about a girl's sex life would most likely offend me. But you don't even respect this girl. What kind of relationship could you possibly have?
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