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Old 18-06-08, 07:39 PM
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Black and White
One of the postings on the forum made me really think about it. How would you regard a black & white person? The one who sees things as black and white, a logical system, either high or love, 1 or zero, right or wrong? Is that a good ethics or a narrow mind as someone has claimed?
Personally I agree, 'no greys please' although I am pretty confident that a perfect person does not exist. But at the end of the day, I do not like greys in relations, work or any aspect of life.
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Old 18-06-08, 08:04 PM
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I would consider a person with that mindset to be naive and lacking information.
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Old 18-06-08, 10:09 PM
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If you don't like people who see everything in gray avoid Iraq. Nothing is right or wrong to those dumbass camel jockeys
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Old 18-06-08, 11:45 PM
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If you don't like people who see everything in gray, avoid DM.




Then again, seeing something either right or wrong can narrow down the mindset and it is easier to live, therefore life can be more fulfilled. But there is a difference between naive black and white person and strict black and white person. First one only sees the blurry image, other one sees the little details that create the big image.
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I like the words of Booba that describe 'a strict black and white person'.
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Old 19-06-08, 12:28 AM
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is that symbolic reference? definitely we are talking here about various situations where decisions are required, Will we take the grey zone or W&B ?
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i don't want to take any of those zones.

**** black. **** white. and **** gray.
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lol really boobaa? I thought people would have said I was black and white. Either way, I bet boobaa is quite white, being Estonian and all
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I don't understand people with a 'black & white' view of the world. To me, it shows they are close minded and not creative. They are unable to think outside of the box or understand another person's perspective on things.
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honestly , i regard them as twisty liars ... uncapable of taking a decision but leading twisty ways to evade a critical situation or win it for example...
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I don't understand people with a 'black & white' view of the world. To me, it shows they are close minded and not creative. They are unable to think outside of the box or understand another person's perspective on things.
But here you are being black and white person yourself, by categorizing them as close minded and not creative.

DM, now when I begin to think about it, yes, you might actually be black. But speaking of Estonia as white, I must say that Estonian atmosphere is quite gray...
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Boobaa you should post your pic in the gallery. Not to use peer pressure or anything, but everybodys doing it!
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A psychotherapist would say that a "black and white" person would have a lot of work to do.
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Please explain Giga bitch... he/she needs a lot of work to do versus what? to be able to face life and overcome problems?
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