Obsessive Love Disorder

[doppelgaenger]

Aja wegen dem Forum muss ich den Anschluß herstellen!

[boriscat1]

Aeradlia, if it was me you were referring to, I certainly wasn't trying to spam - I complete relate to the situation and the first three chapters of the book I've written are free and I honestly think they could help.

I wasn't able to get over the guy I was obsessed with for what seemed like an eternity, but half the time I wouldn't even admit it to myself and transferred all of my affections onto other people. Yes, attention is a part of it, but then so is denial - denying both that what you had with the person you loved has ended, and a completely contradictory feeling of denial over the grief you are not allowing yourself to experience. Rushing into new relationships helps you forget the person you're in love with, but also means you don't have to face up to the fact that it's over; having someone else lavishing you with attention is like putting a plaster on a wound, but unfortunately it'll hurt even more when you rip it off.

You need to face up to the emotions that you're trying to surpress, and part of that involves giving yourself the space (particularly away from other men) to do that. Good luck, and let us know how it all goes. Paul

[Raze]

I would say lack of inhibition.

[boobaa]

You are just a slut.