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    Well man if things are thay difficult then try to talk with her normaly one last time. Talk with her like a friend you want to know. If things don't work then fck it, it's not worth struggle. Talk with any other girl and it should be easier and much more rewarding.
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    I don't know. Talking to her again kind of worries me. I don't know if I'm ready because I could mess up badly again. I need time to prepare and just to give her looks and signs for now.

    But whenever I am ready, what should I say, and when should I say it? The problem is with this though, is that I get few opportunities to see her. I sometimes see her in the hallway by herself but I don't have enough time to say much. And at lunch she moved to a different spot and is hanging around her friends more often.

    And how would I be able to talk to her normally as a friend when that's probably not how she sees me?

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    Well if you don't wanna talk to her then don't do it. No need to worry. Again you fear failure when theres nothing to lose. Just gain progress or see cleary that it's no use after you talk to her. Giving looks and signs is pretty passive and girls ussualy do that. That kinda weak behaviour wont take you anywhere.
    You might never feel truly ready to talk to a girl you don't know, you just have to jump, but if you are feeling kinda ready then stand in front of her so she cant walk past, smile and say: "You look interesting(or beautiful, gorgeous, amazing etc. ) I want to get to know you better. ". Then you might ask some questions you want to know answers for or just ask for her phone number right away. You do it like this: "Listen I gota run now but leave me your phone number cause Im not finished with you yet".

    Basically man you can talk with any girl like that. Before you approach watch some pickup videos or read some guides on how to ask girls numbers or arrange dates with stranger girls. It will give you inital boost and knowledge bits that can come very useful for getting further.
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    Give it some time. Pretend that it didn't happen and stop looking at her. let her chase you down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hazey daisy View Post
    Give it some time. Pretend that it didn't happen and stop looking at her. let her chase you down.
    I don't think she's going to chase me. Interested or not, she has been trying to avoid interaction with me. Even if I'm able to stop paying attention to her (Which is very hard for me) She's still probably going to give me the same amount of attention I've been getting before.

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    Now that's not the right attitude. if you don't have any confidence in yourself, you will never get ahead in life.

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    I guess that makes sense. Maybe if I think more about the positive that came out of this, then maybe I can get the determination that I can succeed. After all, it's not impossible.

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    Ok, so we haven't been making much progress this week. We've been quite neutral lately and it may be because I'm not doing enough. My fear is holding me back sometimes and it's really annoying. How can I forget about being scared? So maybe I can do a little bit more than what I'm doing now. Because currently, I don't even know why, I'm just having trouble and I'm getting even more nervous and scared around her then I usually do. It's just happening all of a sudden. How can I fix my internal struggles so I can fix my social struggles?

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    You know what? I don't know if this is going to work out. I've been terrified of her ever since she looked at me the way she did. I may have used to have courage, but it's all gone now. She gave me a clear sign of how she felt about me and I can't get over it. I really don't know if there is anything else I can do. And I don't think I have it in me to do it anymore, because it may not be the right choice.

    What do you think I should do, give up and end it? Or try again? Keep in mind, I'm almost certain she doesn't like me now.

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