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squirrley
23-01-04, 05:55 AM
Ok? what are ya'lls favorite ways of having sex? I mean actual intercourse?

Why? what it makes it better?

vangirl
23-01-04, 02:49 PM
Doggie Doggie Doggie!!!!! (as a girl)

My boyfriends favorite position is when I sit backwards on him and kind of bounce up and down. A very popular porn position. I don't get much out of it but he loves it

dazedandconfused
23-01-04, 03:14 PM
doggie, no doubt! i think my favs are regular doggie, taking her from the back when she's laying on her stomache (just the sight of her facing down with her butt raised up in intense desire and the love flower ready to bloom is a real turn on); also from the back when i put her facing the wall (close to the wall) and she is sitting on my lap. it's a sort of a semi-vertical doggie, my girl goes crazy and i love it, too! she can move up and down controlling the pace the way she wants to, and then i can take over at any moment, and start moving fast and hard, just like a jackhammer, make her scream and come real soon. another fav is almost doggie, but when instead of standing on my knees, i sit back and the girl moves back, putting herself on me, getting closer to me. this way she does the moving (again, at the pace she wants) and she has to stay somewhat upright, or at least not lay her upper body down. although, when she lays her upper body down and just moves her hips up and down at a good pace, that feels great, too!
other than doggie, i really love the girl on top, when she leans over me as she moves on me, brushes her breasts against my chest and her hair touches my face... i can caress her breasts, touch her neck, hold her waist, put my hands on her hips... endless pleasure. and the ultimate is if she kisses me with passion as she leans over me. i like body contact.
another favorite is when i sit on the bed and she sits on my hips facing me, leaning, or even arching away from me as i hold her back down low... deep penetration... can't move fast though, unless she takes over.
anyways, that and a million other ways - i have many ideas :evil:

squirrley
23-01-04, 06:43 PM
Yea, I have to agree doggie is the best! But those others are great too!

Hell, any position is great if your'e with the one ya love.

dazedandconfused
23-01-04, 08:25 PM
ok, tell me something: you KNOW guys love doggie; but why do girls like doggie so much? what's the reason? deeper penetration? better friction inside the vagina? minimal physical contact (i.e. the guy does not smother you)? being dominated?

or could it be that you, girls, just hate our guts and the only reason you stand us is because we can bring you intense pleasure; but you grab every opportunity to just not see us? :)

Innova
23-01-04, 08:33 PM
Girls like it I believe, if I'm correct, because you can a smoother and more penitrive "slide" outta of it. It's also a good position for when you want t oget a little rough...which I think we all like. :D

squirrley
23-01-04, 08:37 PM
I love the position in itself, he has control. I love it. Grabbing my hips in and out, oh yea, and its great penetration, love hitting the headboard when it gets ruff! haha

I also like being on top, then I have the control, yummyyyyyy
One month, just one more month, and I'll have that control....

That and ya dont get the possibilty of sliding up our ass, that hurts like hell............if that's not what you were going for at that moment...

dazedandconfused
23-01-04, 08:40 PM
Originally posted by squirrley
That and ya dont get the possibilty of sliding up our ass, that hurts like hell............if that's not what you were going for at that moment...

does that actually happen??? :horror: can the penis accidentally slide up the girl's anus if it's moving at a fast pace and happens to slip out?

squirrley
23-01-04, 08:44 PM
UM YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS, and it hurts so bad. If you're on top of her, and her legs are up, take precaution for your woman to die.
When your'e thrusting at a very fast pace and you're woman is REALLY wet, yea it does happen. And let me tell ya, you can hurt her. You can tear her lining, she bleeds, and it takes a long time to want to go to the bathroom. Dont lose the moment thinking about it, but it does and can happen.

Believe me you'll know if it does too...

Innova
23-01-04, 08:44 PM
You women being on top too is a good one, watch you move like liquid fire as you move your hips back and forth...but sometimes I get so into it that I just would grab her roughly, turn her over on the bed and just go at it like a freight train at top speeds.

squirrley
23-01-04, 09:07 PM
damn straight!!!!!!! It doesnt take long for a woman to orgasm either when she's on top, and when you know she has, that's the time to turn her ass over and do her from behind, much more satisfying!!!!

Damn, I cant wait....

vangirl
24-01-04, 08:24 AM
Doggie feels great because it is a really deep and straight penatration, I LOVE it when he grabs my hips in that position.

Another great one is when you spoon and he goes in from behind. It can be a bit tricky I find but it is my favorite gentle position.

I really don't like being on top. I get almost nothing out of that position, I have tried it so many ways and it is just work with no payoff. Well, I do like seeing him happy, but no direct physical payoff to me. I don't get why women like being on top so much, I guess it just feels different to me. Also he is pretty big so I find it can go in too far when I am on top and it will hurt.

Also I have fairly big boobs and when I bounce around they can really hurt. That sucks, so any position that includes bouncy boobs isn't that great.

That spoony thing is awesome though.

jane
24-01-04, 08:27 AM
ok.. I thought id add this in ...

um.. my fav position???

ANY WOULD BE GREAT RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!

squirrley
24-01-04, 08:29 AM
OH HELL YES!!!!
I'm with you Jane...
Damn I'm tired on unisex already

jane
24-01-04, 08:33 AM
I posted this same question awhile back.. it was hilarious.. I think it may be around... of course .. i was insisting that Doggie is the best but right now? ANYWAY would be fab. Any takers? ;)

Innova
24-01-04, 09:25 AM
I'd uh say it, but Zekk would ban me from the forums rofl. :astonish: :D

squirrley
24-01-04, 09:27 AM
oh come on....were all friends here

Innova
24-01-04, 09:31 AM
Trust me, under secret law of um AIM convo's...it cannot lol.

Jane is Zekk's girl lol, this was before.

jane
24-01-04, 12:02 PM
ROFL ..... hey.. im a mod.. I wont ban you .. I dunno know about Zekk though,, ;)

squirrley
24-01-04, 12:05 PM
What the hell are the "off" issues anyway?
What does someone do or say to get the boot in the ass?

Innova
24-01-04, 12:16 PM
ROFL Zekk would kill me Jane...

If your like Diesel, then your gone lol.

squirrley
24-01-04, 12:22 PM
I missed all of that? Damnit, sounds though like he was a #1 Classified Asshole, and I missed those, where was I?

I really liked the girl who told us all to go to hell though!!
Truth does hurt...I even know that...

Innova
24-01-04, 12:27 PM
Trust me, im glad you girls missed. I was first to battle this one hit wonder..and it got to me...every one of his comments. I was defending this forum and you girls.

Yes, the truth does hurt...but a lie punctures you, making you bleed.

squirrley
24-01-04, 12:35 PM
Well, I will say this, I would've been more than happy to oblige in telling this mf off. There are how many women on this forum on a regular basis? What 3 as of recently? So guess it was directed at us. But hey, there are 2 of us who know the truth, and that truth doesnt hurt....

MVPlaya
24-01-04, 01:58 PM
Oooohhh... favorite positions? How about all of them?

But personally, I think its not just the position, its about the foreplay.

I sometimes love to just move all of her body, to kiss each and every part of it and make her discover erogenous zones she never she knew she had. But the best part is teasing her, watching them get frustrated as I play with them is the best part of it. I never just "get to it." I know they want it, but I make 'em work for it. When I'm doing it right its like they lose rational thought, the sexual tension just explodes inside them. Its good too when the girl just instinctively knows your good and is a little afraid, almost like pressure to perform, you can channel all these emotions into the most mind-blowing sex ever.

As for positions, doggy style is probably my favorite. Sometimes I love to get rough with girls. A fave is as me and my partner are both dressed and flirting, to practically pick her up and bend her over the closest furniture, kitchen table, or washing machine (no ovens). And just rip her pants off and give it to her like nothing she's ever had before.

sfalexi
24-01-04, 02:05 PM
No ovens MVP? I think it'd create this sexy theme of danger and excitement. Sorta like if you were to have sex on a waterbed, but while wearing studded latex clothing! Oooo. Sounds like it could make a good porn. Just think, right when the couple climaxes, the studs get shoved into the waterbed containing fish inside and it explodes leaving the fish flopping on the ground. And you could have a closeup of a flopping fish and match it to each orgasmic thrust of the girls hips. Then synchronise them to the very deathdeath of the fish . . and the end of the orgasm. It could be a very tasteful and artistic porn.

Alexi

MVPlaya
24-01-04, 02:09 PM
ROFL.

I guess you're right, I mean, I'm all about channeling emotions right. Think of the fear and excitement she's experiencing as she's bent over the oven and holding onto the turning knobs for grasp. If I do it right she might accidentally start turning a little too. Things could get reeeaaaal hot.

I like your waterbed idea. But how about a shark, think danger, not cuteness. A little floppy goldfish? No, I want the mother****ing jaws of all sharks.

sfalexi
24-01-04, 02:57 PM
No, I want the mother****ing jaws of all sharks.It'd have to be a damned big water bed. Like . . . Queen-sized or something . . . .

sfalexi
24-01-04, 02:57 PM
. . . Or. . . . Oprah-sized . . . .

squirrley
24-01-04, 08:29 PM
You guys are absalutely nuts...but hell MVP you have that right on the foreplay issue. knowing how to do that is the key.
I love to take his penis and use it as a toy and rub it all over my well ya know,until I climax, and then him do me....ruf ruf...
And I am at the point where the damn end table would work...
This whole fantasy of sharks in waterbeds and shit, what??????
Ya'lls imaginations DO run wild dont they?????

Ok, let me ask this, do you like it when the woman is control? Takes ALL of the initiative? handcuff ya, do what they want to ya? blindfold you? so you dont know what's coming?

Innova
24-01-04, 11:41 PM
Originally posted by squirrley


Ok, let me ask this, do you like it when the woman is control? Takes ALL of the initiative? handcuff ya, do what they want to ya? blindfold you? so you dont know what's coming?

YES!!!! My Ex did that all and then some to me once, and it caught me off guard...i loved it!

squirrley
24-01-04, 11:48 PM
It's good to have variety...spice things up now and then...
I'm looking for something to totally do just that, suprise to him to no end....what would that be? What would do that for you?

sfalexi
25-01-04, 05:21 AM
You wanna surprise him to no end, buy a studded dildo. Bring it out when it's just you two one night. When he looks at it, slyly say, "And guess what . . . it's not for me . . . " Who knows? It could add a whole nother dimension to yours (and his) sex life.

Alexi

squirrley
25-01-04, 06:16 AM
OH MY F***** GOD!!! ROFL. Can I please have something a little less drastic, DAMNNNNNN. What does this about YOU?

Didn't think guys liked the stuff. But hey, I HEARD, dont know from experience, that a finger is good? Is that true? Does that stimulate you men?

Innova
25-01-04, 07:19 AM
I really don't get enjoyment of that fact, and don't think i'll ever try it rofl. But guys have a spot in there that supposidly stimulates a guy.

squirrley
25-01-04, 07:26 AM
it's what I thought, can't imagine men liking things up there.

Innova
25-01-04, 07:44 AM
Originally posted by squirrley
it's what I thought, can't imagine men liking things up there.

Bubba does! ;) :P

sfalexi
25-01-04, 10:41 AM
Yes. Apparently the male G-spot can be reached through his rectum. It's the good 'ol prostate gland. Supposed to be much pleasure if stimulated correctly. (I personally haven't tried it because I'm against things going 'in' the 'out' hole, but who knows? Maybe one day I'll be alone, and bored, and will see a bottle of baby oil crying out my name.)

You can see links before reply
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And dozens more with a easy search with "male g-spot" on google.

Alexi

squirrley
25-01-04, 10:48 AM
WOW, have we done some research? Very interesting....
Glad you posted those though...it was enlightening...

MVPlaya
25-01-04, 11:14 AM
Originally posted by sfalexi
You wanna surprise him to no end, buy a studded dildo. Bring it out when it's just you two one night. When he looks at it, slyly say, "And guess what . . . it's not for me . . . " Who knows? It could add a whole nother dimension to yours (and his) sex life.

Alexi

ROFL!!!

To answer squirrley, restrictions are fun. I've had a girl handcuff me, and I loved it. However, I must note, buy special handcuffs, real handcuffs used for this purpose can lead to severe injuries. Also fun is blindfolds, if both of you wear em, it can be real erotic. And no, I don't care no matter what, I'm EXIT ONLY.

jane
25-01-04, 01:34 PM
Ditto MVP... I am not into that...

sfalexi
26-01-04, 12:32 AM
Who knows MVP . . . you might end up loving it. . . just need to give it the chance . . . hehehe.

I don't know how the bed is set up, but if there are posts at each corner, how about two sets of handcuffs/ropes and tying or cuffing one hand to each post so he's in this sort of "crucifix" position. Or the legs too for this sort of controlled "spread" look?

Did you ever bring food into play? It's pretty cliche but buy a can of whipped cream and/or chocolate or strawberry syrup and you can be his "desert".

Did you ever greet him at the door naked when he returns home from work or something? I remember a "family feud" where the number one answer for "What you would be most surprised if your wife did" was "Greet me at the door naked".

Buy a book of Karma Sutra and work your way through all the different positions. Maybe you'll find something you both really like and lots of it will probably be new stuff.

That's all I can think of right now.

Alexi

Innova
26-01-04, 01:27 AM
Trust me everything you said short of the asshole has been done, we were VERY creative ROFL.

sfalexi
26-01-04, 02:00 AM
How about sex in public places? Could be a thrill and most of the time all you do is get kicked out of places if you're caught (not arrested). Like find a lonely place in the library or museum, a back room or closet in a large store or mall (think sears or something like that), etc.

squirrley
26-01-04, 04:50 AM
Ya know I all the above is good and has been done. But I always enjoy the food bit. Body paints, been there too. Handcuffs were fun, but no posts in a hotel. Public places would be interesting.

The new phase is Kantra Sex, sounds intimidating uh? But the gist of is you get your partner to almost climax but stop, take your partners feelings at the very moment and just breath in unison, guess its almost a spiritual thing. Sounds cool.

Who knows I think sex in general if with the right person can lead to almost anything, and then find things you never imagined yourself doing.....

sfalexi
26-01-04, 07:30 AM
I always thought it was called "Tantric" sex. Oh well. I know what you're talking about.
Who knows I think sex in general if with the right person can lead to almost anything, and then find things you never imagined yourself doing.....I've heard that's true. I've heard that people who were so against anal before, once they're in a true relationship, end up at least giving it a shot for the other person. Some continue, some don't. But at least you know they're willing to experiment.

squirrley
26-01-04, 07:35 AM
yea yea that's what i meant, see still researching....
you know too much...hahaha

Innova
26-01-04, 07:44 AM
It is true, its very true. Because in real love, we are willing to do anything for our partner...even if its once. Thats with most cases though.

squirrley
26-01-04, 07:47 AM
Again I honestly agree with you there. Wait I said that stuff first didn't I?

The threesome posts proved to be interesting didn't it?
That showed where true love really can go? Or not.

Innova
26-01-04, 07:52 AM
Thats one thing I would never do..love is between two partners, not 3 or 4...if I wanted that...i'll buy a porno lol.

squirrley
26-01-04, 07:55 AM
AMEN Brother! I think sex is probably the most intimate act of sharing ones thoughts and emotions, not to mention giving eachother your bodies which are your sacred temples per say.

No way, would I ever do that. It's not a jealousy issue, but one I feel is too important to share with someone else. Should be kept between the two of you.

dazedandconfused
26-01-04, 05:12 PM
re. MVP's foreplay post: yeah, during foreplay i found several of my girlfriend's hot spots. you'd never know how pressures applied to certain points along her backbone can turn her on instantly. we found this out during massage. i think one point is about 6 inches above the waist, when i massage right next to her backbone with my knuckles; the same with 2-3 inches below the neck. the real instant turn-on is when i press these two points on her buttocks - in the part where the back beautifully turns into the best ass i've seen there is a sort of a horizontal bone; when i press right next to it (left and right of the bone) with my knuckles or fingertips, her butt rises immediately and she gets turned on. same thing with when i bite or nibble the back of her neck - she loves it and starts moaning real soon.

as for the desire building up - just last night we were at my friend's place, it was supposed to be just the three of us - my friend, his brother who is in town, and myself, and the girls had a girls' night out. well, the girls took a cab and came over at 2 in the morning so we all hung out, and then i went to the other room to sleep just cuz i had to go to work in the morning. our friends were in the next room finishing the movie, so we fondled for a while and teased each other but didn't take it any further. after a while, when everyone went to bed, we started again in the middle of the night, and this time she just couldn't stand it any more, so we went ahead with it. she tried to be as quiet as she could, but the sexual tension released itself in a big way. it took some long love-making while trying to suppress moans and screams, until finally, she virtually exploded!!! she orgasmed, and it lasted almost a minute - the whole time she squirmed, shivered, moaned and kept gasping for air. after the wave had receded, she kept panting, and when she could speak again, she said she never had an orgasm this intense!!! all the tension, all the secrecy, the necessity to keep it quiet...... it all made for a tremendous night!

squirrley
26-01-04, 08:33 PM
It does take a woman to get aroused a little longer and DEFIENTLY A LOT LONGER to cool off. When a guy is done, the woman is like "oh wait a minute, can we keep messn around here!" A man takes a second to get aroused and depending on the heightened moment maybe a minute to be done, ok I'll cut some slack, or longer, not putting anyone down, it happens to the best of us. But, foreplay before AND after is important.
Please guys, when you're done KEEP caressing us, wether its just touching our hair, or whatever, dont turn over and fall asleep, even though its post orgasmic relaxtion, DONT IGNORE us.
Yea, we feel great we put you there, but sometimes we still need some tlc afterwards...

dazedandconfused
26-01-04, 09:17 PM
i say turn over and fall asleep and you will go to hell for sure. i mean come on! i can't stop telling my babe how much i love her when she's lying breathless in my arms... i think it comes naturally if you love the person, but if you only wanted to get layed, there's no point in trying to talk sense into you. if you're in it for the nookie only, you just don't get why that's important, or if you do, it doesn't come from the heart and women CAN TELL!!!

jane
27-01-04, 01:35 PM
Originally posted by squirrley
It does take a woman to get aroused a little longer and DEFIENTLY A LOT LONGER to cool off. When a guy is done, the woman is like "oh wait a minute, can we keep messn around here!" A man takes a second to get aroused and depending on the heightened moment maybe a minute to be done, ok I'll cut some slack, or longer, not putting anyone down, it happens to the best of us. But, foreplay before AND after is important.
Please guys, when you're done KEEP caressing us, wether its just touching our hair, or whatever, dont turn over and fall asleep, even though its post orgasmic relaxtion, DONT IGNORE us.
Yea, we feel great we put you there, but sometimes we still need some tlc afterwards...


oh my god... right on! That's exactly what I would have said... please dont leave us alone after such a mind altering episode.. we need that! TLC baby .. is better then sex sometimes!

Innova
27-01-04, 08:14 PM
Shit, I don't stop...until you do stop.

squirrley
27-01-04, 08:23 PM
I'm glad to know there are some men who know what the hell theyre doing! Could you pass it on, or right a book!

Some men dont get that it takes us longer to cool off.
We want it JUST as bad as you do! Just a tad bit longer...ok maybe hours longer...

Innova
27-01-04, 08:37 PM
Whenever she wanted it...she got it, however long she wanted it..she got it. It felt that good, and thats how much I loved her.

I remember if we took a break, we would just lay there...naked..embracing eachother. I would sit there while holding her...and use my fingers to touch all over her body, or stroke my hands through her hair.

squirrley
27-01-04, 08:39 PM
That's the way my man! That shows something. I get caressed afterwards and I love it when he just holds me...and looks at me likes theres no tomorrow...he looks so deep into my eyes I think he burnt a hole through to the wall...

sfalexi
28-01-04, 06:32 AM
Oh God. It's turning into a romance novel . . . No! . . . No! . . . I must not visualize Fabio on the cover of this thread with a ripped shirt! . . . . .. AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

squirrley
28-01-04, 06:40 AM
Oh YUK NO......no fabio in this dream or this post....

Innova
28-01-04, 06:58 AM
:P

jane
28-01-04, 07:29 AM
Originally posted by sfalexi
Oh God. It's turning into a romance novel . . . No! . . . No! . . . I must not visualize Fabio on the cover of this thread with a ripped shirt! . . . . .. AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

LMFAO!!!

***** tune in tomorrow****

squirrley
28-01-04, 07:55 AM
I LOVE THIS PLACE!

jane
28-01-04, 07:56 AM
........me too..... who cant! ;)

Innova
28-01-04, 08:04 AM
13 year old horny flamers that happen to come in one day and disappear the next!

I call it magic, others call it...a distraction??

squirrley
28-01-04, 08:06 AM
ROFL.....
only the true imagintive can survive this place....

Innova
28-01-04, 08:07 AM
*Raises fist*

HAR HAR!! :french: :P

jane
28-01-04, 09:50 AM
Originally posted by Innova
*Raises fist*

HAR HAR!! :french: :P


CHeers ! You were reading my mind.... ;)

MVPlaya
28-01-04, 12:19 PM
Originally posted by squirrley
Yea, we feel great we put you there, but sometimes we still need some tlc afterwards...

Hell no, leave em wanting more. :evil:

squirrley
28-01-04, 06:50 PM
Only you would say something like that MVP!!!
Now I see why Machivelli was so important...