I have a bad feeling, given the signs im picking up and or feeling.
a week ago my g/f started becoming more distant i felt, more bla, i knew she has stress at work, stress from a child, had been slacking on cleaning her place as she said but i thought it was fine. Has allergies like no end right now, and theres me. I do not try and cause stress at all. I asked her if somthing was wrong basicly a week ago, said yes and indirectly it was me. I asked if i should leave or take my things, she said no. she stated she was use to it just being her and her kid and now there me (its been me for 3 months) i asked if there was a problem me being her bf. said she no. I also asked if she wanted the sex to stop, she said only on peroid week cuz we cant. She also said how about i sleep over every other day. ok friday i was kinda burned out so i took the day off work. friday morning i said just let me know when i can come over, she seemed fine. I got a text from her end of night, asking how my day was, got 2 texts and she contacted me on her own.
next day i never got any contact, thought it was strange, at least 1 text a day and nothing, i send her a text at night, and few hours later got one back, she seemed happy and had smiles in the text.
next day she worked 12 hours, sunday night ended no contact at all. monday morning i sent a text asking if she wanted to take a walk, she got back few hours later said maybe later, later came, texted me we went to park with her child for an hour. she seemed better, hugged kissed, she was close to me like normal.
tuesday came, no contact again, i send a text hi how are you and get back a lol, im good u? not sure what was funny about it. later i texted i was laying down i was laying down in bed, just wanted to see how her day was if she is free to chat alittle. she texted right back the girls father was over and in a few shes be free. the father is out of the picture, jsut drops the girl off and some things everynow and then. he has a active g/f. my g/f cant stand the father also at all.
well i end up falling asleep, wokeup check phone never got a call or a text back. got up early checked face book and shes never really a super active person on there but notice shes attening some band from people at her work saturday with her friends. normaly i always get invited to these kinda things and im kinda upset as i dont know whats happeneing
now all of a sudden im thinking worst case, she wants nothint to do with me. I have things at her place and she never told me to take anything, said i could keep stuff there. Im on her cell plan, and she had things at my house.
Im not woman, but i dated alot of them and have noticed what its like to be pushed away, or ignored. im not trying to bug her, a text a day i dont think is bugging when your just wantint to see how you girlfriends day might have went. I care. i feel like im not being cared about now. I also understand space but she never said like i dont wanna see you for a week or 2. i thought every other day ment every other day and when that came i got ignored.
what should i do? im very use to being with her and her child, im trying to find things to do but i dont want it to make it look like im ignoring her. nor am i wanting to start stalking her. do i ask after a week when i can come over and see you? the week prior to her period she was very tired and didnt want to have sex at all. im just trying to figure out whats really going on if its more then what i was told.
going off past g/f when sex stopped she was seeing my mechanic...now i dont have any gut feeling she seeing anyone else or anything like that. but i have a gut feeling im being ignored on purpose cuz that phones by her hand all the time. i have never been one to smother her either when were togther, shed have time at night or weekends to do what she needed and so did it, regaurdless if we were in the same room or appartment together.
i dont really have anyone to talk to and i dont wanna bug her cuz when ya bug ya piss people off more if they already trying to get some distance. just need some woman advice as to what really might be happening cuz ive honestly never had a fight or anything with her, we always got alone well and agreed alot on so much, the week before i got texts i like you and she checked on on me and her dog every night cuz i house sat for her while away with her family for 4 days to NC. and yes they went there.
just upset and very worried. we have days planned to do things on june 10th and july aug and sept and im just very uneasy about the entire thing. hot then cold....and wtf am i supose to do?
shes 28 ill be 28 in 3 months...i dont think we are very young but i dont want games, she was very mature. harder thing is im falling for her and realizing im attched to the kid also and this is a situation ive never been in so its really wearing me thin.