I have been working with this coworker more than half a year. We sit next to each other, and in a row of 5 cabins, there is only him and I. We are also assigned to work in the same team. Both of us are at the same age and work as freelancer during off-time.
For the 3rd days since I started working there, he somehow noticed my habit of removing the watch, leave it on the table. and said to me that we have such same habit. I just replied smiles because I didn't know what to say! (But I still remember it due to this is the first time I meet a man who shares the same strange habit with me). And after few days, through chatting, he said to me he got big freelance project, I said wow, so remember to treat me! (but said it just for fun) Surprisingly, he bought me a bottle of fruit shake! Smiley. But I didn't have any special feeling, because I am still new worker there.
When I start to close to him. We make non-sense jokes at the cabins, in elevator or just teasing each other in front of the office door (if by chance we came to office at the same time). Sometimes I bought him sweet, because he said he likes sweet. One day, the office was out of electricity, both of us came late and our supervisor as well as the boss were also near our cabins. When we appeared together, they and other staffs made jokes about our "accidentally being late" and since then the rumors have started!
I don't mind because I am just in a complicated relationship, and don't have space-in-mind for such things. One day I met him at the elevator, we were late, and he said to me that he had his whole toenail removed due to it wrongly developed by the effects of playing football. I again made smiling respond! But I kept on wondering how come he told his personal things like that to me, or don't know if he tried to explain the reason he is late or what?
Sometimes, after finishing work, I played game or read fortune-teller website. I happened to open a good fortune-teller site. So I buzzed him and asked if he also wants to know. He said yes, and I asked his full name. He replied that how come I don't know his full name? (Too shy! I really didn't remember even all the working emails he sent to us which his full name is attached along Roll Eyes Cool). I tried to cover it and read for him. Then he asked how about love, I read for him. And suddenly he said wrong, because before he had but in fact he is single now! Then I went on another topic, forgot about the detail of "single" ones.
Few days ago, a coworker sent us wedding invitation, during reading it, I made joke about its blanks 'Ms. and ....' for me and 'Mr. and...' for him, I said to the groom that it will be perfect if we combine our blanks together! Three of us bursted to laugh and he also agreed! After that, he told me if I dont know the wedding location, I can pass by his house and we will go there (the wedding location is near his house).
And days later, another coworker from different team asked us if we would join them to visit the beach (on the same day with the wedding). Of course I can't, and so can him. The coworker ask why both of us are busy at the same day, what about the evening or the next day? Both of us said no, he joked that I will go to see his parents, and with the next day question, both of us made same replied that I will not let him go!
Just last week, he ask my favor to buy some CDs for his sister. He copied all the text his sister sent to him, and asked if I can help. Of course I can do because the shop is near my house. But again, he makes me wonder because there is no need to show in details what his sister wrote to him, as well as her id?
I don't know if I think too much or start to... like him. If really I like him, what about him? Is he just acting in polite manner or what else is hidden?
These days I always think about him, and I really feel uncomfortable with it. He is quite handsome, very well - talking, small (short and thin), while I am very big, not taller than him, but sometime in his joke, he told me Ms. Incredible or Ms. Meat! Lips Sealed
(About my complicated relationship, I haven't met my bf for more than 1 year).
Hope to hear all of your advice. Smiley