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Thread: From BBM to Calling?
03-01-12, 07:11 AM #1
From BBM to Calling?
So heres the scenario:
I talk to a girl online and after about 15 messages she gives me her bbm. I immediately start texting her and after but I'm finding her harder to communicate on it. That was yesterday, today I'm suggesting we have a phone chat but first she says she's with her family and the second she just says she's busy
I think I just needed to type it out, am I being too pushy or what?
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04-01-12, 02:03 AM #2
You sure it is a she? If it is definitely a she then maybe she is just shy and nervous about a voice conversation?
06-01-12, 04:07 AM #3
Sounds like she wants to spend time with her family. Maybe she doesn't see them often. You can't expect people to answer a text within 10 minutes ALL the time.Change the things you can, and don't worry about the rest.
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12-01-12, 08:10 AM #4
You haven't built enough comfort with her. No one's too busy to have a phone call, but to escalate you gotta pump her emotional state a bit first. If she's having a mediocre messaging convo she's not going to want to take it to a phone call.
If you're having a fun, flirty convo, after exchanging a few messages (in rapid succession) say something like "You're such a dork :p (or however you'd tease her / bust her balls a bit) I gotta do some running around, but how about I call you in like... 5 mins?"
If she dodges you again I'd let it go, or at least go no contact for a few days.
26-01-12, 02:17 AM #5
Pushy.....always give some space between messages, and don't always be so available....makes you look too needy....makes them want to shake you off their leg.If I could change my name it would be Happy Camper
18-02-12, 07:44 AM #6
To be honest i wouldn't start to get comfortable talking to someone on BBM , go out there and meet someone rather than facebook or bbm. < only use them for people you actually know.The road is coming to an end just catch the highway and meet someone else
20-02-12, 12:15 PM #7
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